Being in the arms of loneliness next to your lover

 

"Problems in the relationship arise due to unmet adult needs rather than the neurotic expression of infantile needs (Wile, 1981). Partners need to be able to reveal their true selves and be accepted by each other as they are." they need, fear of rejection or other They need to be able to say what they feel and what they think deep down without the fear of getting hurt."

As I read these lines by Greenberg and Johnson, I can't help but think: How many of us can tell our lover without hesitation what we really want to do and what we feel? can he? I can't help but think, how many of us can truly be ourselves around our lover without fear of rejection?

As I read these lines, I can't help but think. How many of us, with a hidden self, abandon ourselves to the arms of loneliness rather than the arms of our lover in that relationship?

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