READ "DO NOT DELAY YOUR BABY'S TALKING".
"HELP YOUR BABY"
Are you one of those who cannot believe when I say "MY BABY speaks in sentences when he is three years old, not when he grows up"? Then let's see what I mean. There are many factors that affect the child's speech, from the baby's meaningless sounds in the first months to his ability to speak properly later on. These factors are:
HERITAGE
There are experts who say that if there is a history of late speech in the family, late speech may occur. However, many medical doctors and families sometimes get stuck on this reason, which is why important interventions are delayed.
▪ I ask the family of a five-year-old child who has difficulty saying words and forming sentences. “Why didn't you get help until today?”
▪ The answer is very familiar. But it's sad.” HIS FATHER ALSO AW!! THEY SAID "HE SPOKE LATE" AND HE SPEAK!!!!!.
▪ It makes me very sad to find a child with low self-confidence and helplessness at this age, when children have the success and skills to figure out how to read and write on their own. And very...
▪ Please get help without WAITING, before the child's linguistic delay casts a shadow over his school and education life.
ENVIRONMENT
▪ If television becomes a babysitter and he learns to eat through commercials. If you have a baby, you have bought the "delayed speech" invitation.
▪ And if your baby calms down by playing games on your computer and you brag about it by saying "my baby is very smart", these lines are not enough to list the things that can happen.
▪ And also and one. If you stay at home for days instead of bringing your child together with children and playing games with them, you are inviting problems not only for delayed speech but also for other areas of your child's development and mental health. The child gets sick from being away from humanity and being away from nature and people. Moreover, these diseases cannot be cured with two antibiotics and some vitamins.
▪ Which mother wants her little one to be sad? If he doesn't eat it, he mashes it and feeds it again.!!!! I mean, right.
▪ I have a three-year-old client who ate puree until he was 2.5 years old. We have just met. I call it “meatball tongue”. at the moment a is 3 years old. He can only say "mother and father".
Talking is very scary for him. However, with a little effort, all fears will end. I wish we had met 2-3 months ago.
▪ First, we educate the mother. Enabling him to accept the situation is important for change.
▪ His mother does not allow him to grow up. But he needs to understand that he is harming him and accept quickly to help his child.
▪ There are no more crowded families. The grandfathers and grandmothers who tell stories are not in the house where it happens. Moreover, there are not as many grandchildren as before. The grandchildren I have are very precious.
▪ “I WON'T LET MY GRANDSON DESTROY. I'll do whatever he wants. "I can see what he wants from his eyes." Then, your baby will experience the comfort of understanding without talking for a while.
▪ Until one day, he is excluded from the game because he could not explain his problem.
▪ Most of the time, things get complicated beforehand. He can't tell you what he wants and he throws a tantrum.
▪ Uncle still doesn't have a child. Much like before.
▪ “Let's get along for my sake.” When there are no children and mothers to care for, it becomes lonely for two people.
▪ Parents live in an intensely stressful life. And they don't have time to play with their children for half an hour a day.
▪ I hear a word said by a mother when faced with the facts: "My father and mother are looking after. We also go to work. Work is also busy. Now I understand why I come home with a toy every day.” It turns out that toys were objects I bought to suppress my guilt about not spending time with my daughter :((
▪ “My daughter needed to spend time with her, not toys. I was buying her toys to comfort myself.” parents sometimes think. When this happens, problems may come one after another.
▪ One of these problems may be speech delay.
▪ OR ONE DAY, YOUR CHILD MAY START TO STUTTER
▪ The mother is depressed. But she does not receive treatment. Or Treatment is only with medication. He does not benefit from therapy and preventive and supportive health services. In this case, he may not want to talk or get close to anyone. EVEN WITH HIS BABY.
▪ And then the baby grows but does not speak.
▪ In some homes, people shout at the child at home and Even physical violence is a reality for individuals within the family. While saying e, THE CHILD CHOOSES TO BE SILENT. HIS CHOICE
IS A BIG DILEMMA FOR HIM!!!
▪ And then someone comes along and says, "Let's make the child read." Let his tongue be opened. A teacher is sought.
▪ “The child who has never had a fight or a fuss in that house is assumed to have never experienced those traumas.” That is easier.
▪ Instead of stopping and thinking and looking for help channels that will correct your own mistakes.
▪ Wrong Don't understand, I am not against prayer. BUT “GOD ORDERED US TO USE YOUR MIND”. I mean, .
PHYSICAL HEALTH
▪ If your baby has problems with organs such as ears, jaw and tongue, speech may not occur even if everything in the environment is perfect. You should definitely consult a specialist who works on speech disorders and development and specialist physicians working in this field. Start the help process whether there is a problem or not. As the doctor does not say; Just in case it passes when you grow up. I ask some parents, "Where have you been until this hour?" during development follow-up. They blame the tardiness on doctors. And even though I don't want to believe it, I feel sad about the situation. Medical and psychological assistance processes cannot be neglected. “Early help saves your baby's future”
▪ Even if we don't want to, we have to point out that this situation of a child with delayed speech may not only be a sign of delayed speech, but it may also be a clue to other problems. AND EARLY INTERVENTION AND EARLY EDUCATION ARE THE GREATEST MEDICINE.
▪ Avoiding confronting problems increases the problem.
▪ I understand you. REALLY. I feel your QUIVING MOTHER HEARTS in my heart once again with every new mother I meet EVERY DAY.
▪ Who puts dust on their hennaed lamb.
▪ Who wants to see tears in the eyes of the little one's mother and worry in her heart.
▪ A REAL MOTHER IS THE MOTHER WHO SOLVES HER CHILD'S PROBLEMS . YOU HAVE READ UNTIL THE END OF THE ARTICLE
BECAUSE YOU ARE A REALLY GOOD MOTHER. You understand the subject. NOW IT'S TIME TO DO WHAT IS NECESSARY.
So when should I get help?
If your child is not saying words clearly at the age of 3, cannot make sentences even of two words, is trying to understand with signs, you should consult a development specialist who can do a language development test for speech delay. must. These measurements are made by tifaldi and tedil tests in accordance with Turkish standards. Tifaldi test is a test specially developed for Turkish children. a physician If he speaks to you and tells you to wait, "never wait." Request an evaluation of your child's language development from a specialist.
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