The 0-6 age period is the period in which our personality and the kind of adult we will become in the future are almost certainly shaped. During this period, personality is shaped by the behavior of the parent, especially the caregiver, towards the child. If the child is lucky, the wrong attitudes during this period will be compensated for during adolescence. If they are unlucky and cannot overcome these problems during adolescence, they are doomed to live a problematic life with personality disorders (they are not diseases). Personality disorders differ among themselves. There are types such as borderline, narcissistic, schizoid and schizotypal. The milder types of these types of disorders are disorders such as obsessive-compulsive, anxiety, panic attacks and phobias, which are defined as neurotic (oedipal). The characters and symptoms of these disorders are different from each other, and their correction is possible with psychotherapy. Psychiatric treatment is partially effective in solving such problems, and the medications given only provide temporary relief by eliminating the symptoms for a while.
Seeing life and people sometimes very good, sometimes very bad, sometimes exalting the same person very much, sometimes degrading them, seeing other people as worthless beings, thinking that the whole world and people were created for him, seeing the feelings and thoughts of others. not being able to understand or not caring or valuing at all, not being able to empathize, finding the concept of empathy ridiculous, always being in a distant relationship with people, having few or no friends, being easily offended, being extremely touchy, being secretly afraid of failure, doing the work one has to do. Some symptoms of these disorders include not being able to do things even though they know how to do them, anxiety about authority, constantly worrying about rejection, being anxious and tense as if something will happen at any moment, not being able to do some things that others can do easily, having phobias and unfounded fears, always directing your life according to others. is one of the signs. These disorders present symptoms in different ways; alcohol addiction, gambling habit, excessive sexuality, excessive masturbation, sexual dysfunction, problems in sexual intercourse with spouse or partner, spending money unconsciously, not being able to work regularly in a workplace, frequent job changes, intolerance, Excessive irritability, getting angry at the other person more than necessary, behaving in ways that make the spouse extremely angry and then feeling like the experience is a very simple, unnecessarily exaggerated event, not being able to understand or feel the other person's feelings. Getting rid of these disorders, which reduce the quality of life and distract the person from real life, disrupting the happiness of both himself and those around him, and experiencing true happiness are only possible with therapy performed by psychotherapists trained in this field. These therapies, which can last between 1-3 years, are a journey of rediscovering life, which sometimes involves difficulties but ends in happiness...
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