The institution that forms the smallest part of a society is defined as family. Marriage can be defined as marriage when two people conclude the bond of common love, affection, respect, loyalty and trust with a legal union.
The Covid-19 pandemic, which was declared a pandemic by the World Health Organization in 2020, has affected humanity in many ways: physical health, economy, social and psychological. Our business and social lives have been disrupted during the social isolation process, which is the safest way to protect ourselves from the pandemic. Organizations such as vows, engagements, weddings and marriages organized by couples who decided to get married while celebrating this decision were also negatively affected by the pandemic process.
People's establishment of social support networks has a great impact on psychological resilience. In other words, as a social being, the presence of people with whom people share moments when they are stressed, sad or happy strengthens people psychologically. With the pandemic, couples' inability to share their most special days with their family, friends and loved ones reduces their morale and motivation.
Well,
You are in the marriage process and having difficulties in planning your wedding/wedding organization due to the effects of the pandemic,
Restrictions and uncertainties stress you out and reduce your motivation.
How can you deal with all this?
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Be understanding of the emotions you and your partner feel.
First of all, if we consider how important it is for you to organize the marriage process, the coincidence of all these with the pandemic process and the anxiety you feel are quite understandable.
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Do not deviate from your main purpose while planning.
Every marriage and every relationship is unique. When planning your wedding/wedding organization, determine the issues that are important to you and your common tastes. This method helps you eliminate many concepts while organizing your organization and determine the concepts that are most suitable for you.
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Proceed by taking notes.
If you will be dealing with many different tasks at the same time while organizing a wedding. In such a case, your attention It is possible that it will disintegrate. Keeping notes on what to do can be a savior.
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Take advantage of technology.
No video calls are hot. Although it cannot replace a hug or being next to each other, you can share this special day with your loved ones who want to be with you. Being just a phone call away is one of the good things the pandemic process has taught us.
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Be flexible to be spontaneous.
. Due to closures, restrictions, and intercity travel bans, many of our plans were cancelled. We learned that we cannot control everything. Sometimes it is necessary to abandon yourself to the rewards of the process and make full use of the opportunities you have. If the parts that do not exist are not under your control, struggling will reduce your energy, desire and motivation. Appreciate what you have and enjoy it whenever you can.
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Do not hesitate to seek psychological support individually or as a couple.
The pandemic and the marriage process can be challenging. and things can get messy. Do not hesitate to get psychological support from an expert in this process.
To marriages established with love, respect and affection…
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