“Lack of Love, this is what hurts people; The person you avoid, the person you wrap in cotton with your love, fills your eyes with happiness with a word or a smile that comes out of his mouth... One day, he will soak your eyelashes and tear your heart to pieces... He is such a pain that it literally burns you inside. It's as if they wrapped barbed wire around your heart and force you to breathe..."
Thought-oriented approach:
"Yes... Many people come and go in our lives... Life and I are valuable... I don't think it's a good idea to upset myself... Also He wasn't a good person anyway... I consider him as if I had never experienced him in my life... Yes, yes... ”
Problem-oriented approach:
“I know... I have a nature that connects me to the person I love... But isn't that what love is anyway... I got used to him. Actually... I felt very close to him... He seemed like a very compassionate and loving person... I don't know, maybe he seemed like that... I always wanted him to be with me... I didn't want to share it with anyone... I have mistakes too... But he also hurt me a lot... I felt worthless...
However, he was very valuable to me and I would make him feel it... He never had a sincere word... He always walked away from me... I couldn't notice it... Or I noticed it but I couldn't stop it,
anyway... He didn't exist in the past... I was alive. ... His presence added color to my life, it was pink... Now I have to erase that color... I painted it too dark... It was too pink, it started to become unreal... There are other colors in life... My eraser is not big because I don't have huge mistakes... I am insecurely attached to the person I thought was right... I can untie the rope... It's me. I have everything in my hand... Logic is the most beautiful color.”
When we are exposed to emotional trauma, these thoughts keep revolving in our minds... Above, you can see some examples of the approaches of a person who receives the expectation of love from a loved one with negative feedback and questions that person and his life.
/> Last word: While you run at kilometer speed with emotions, the mind progresses with meters.
If you listen to your mind when making decisions for yourself, your generation, your family, your economy and your values, your rate of regret will decrease.
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