If you want to take yourself further in terms of individual development, remember that you need to adjust the dose of this questioning and analysis well while questioning and analyzing yourself in this process. In this case, the most important mistake to be made will be not being able to adjust this dose, which will cause discomfort after a while. and may cause unhappiness...
Experiences and values gained in efforts to eliminate the ego can easily be overlooked. While accounting for the past, evaluating the day, and planning for the future, a person can suddenly fall into the pit of guilt. It may not be that easy to get out of this situation. If we add to this the reactions of the environment and especially the relatives to the old image, the individual is not allowed to be proud of his strengths. This process is very difficult for the person who is already focused on areas that are open to development, and on top of that, his personality may suffer various blows from everyone, including himself.
This transition period may lead to a decrease in your self-confidence. It is natural for you to exhibit timid behavior even on many issues that you know very well and are experienced in. One should not be aggressive, but one should not be passive either. The determined, self-confident personality, which is the middle point of this, can be a perspective that can make both the individual and the environment happy. In this structure, everyone has a common interest. Everyone is in the same boat. They share the conditions, effort, success and failure. The individual tries to exist in the environment he is in without denying his own self, abilities and open areas.
A person's individual development journey is rather a program put forward by himself. If the individual is not satisfied enough with where he is, he begins to design some programs for change and development. At this point, balance, perseverance and patience are very important.
We say that extremes are always harmful. We should not forget that goals that turn into passion can lead to imbalance with other phenomena. Everything needs to be balanced within certain limits. We must adhere strictly to this thought. We may perhaps think that passion lies behind many great successes. But what is the cost? This is what makes me think. The child of parents who play the ideal is not perfect at all. As soon as he realizes that he is not a creature, he may experience various psychological problems and may even turn into these extreme structures. Just like the painful events we recently experienced with mothers killed by their children, but from which very serious lessons must be learned. I don't know how many parents have noticed this.
While questioning and analyzing life, paying attention to balance can be one of the solutions. It is also a choice to stay away from confusion in thoughts and subconsciously in order to simply exist. There are no rights or wrongs in life, there are choices, consequences and costs.
I wish you a life in which your soul, your thoughts, what you do, what you say, what you feel, your behavior and therefore what we experience are always in balance.
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