An elder in history said, "Slander is such a sharp sword that the wound of the sword heals, but the wound of slander does not heal." Another ancestor said, “Destroying the heart is worse than destroying the Kaaba.” “Hand wounds heal, tongue wounds do not. “Another proverb of ours. Sometimes I feel like I'm a dictionary of proverbs and idioms, but when I look at young people, they don't know many of them. Books are our guide in life, they draw a broad framework for life. Beautiful proverbs are a life guide for us in the details of our lives. They assign one of the upper-class students as a "Mentor" to students who have just started university. In our time, in our first year, a huge professor himself became our "Mentor" and guided us for 6 years... Where did I come from? ... In this article, I would like to guide those who are upset due to slander, on the occasion of a patient of mine.
The reason why reckoning and making amends for slander never ends in this world is that it is directed towards the identity of the victim. That person's most basic need, the feeling of 'TRUST', is harmed. I have seen many times that the person who has been slandered becomes angry with himself, with people, with the world, and sometimes even with the Creator. But don't be afraid, it is not that easy, the effect of slander does not last long. If there is even a tiny grain of truth behind it, do not be afraid. Even though there are some people who tend to believe in the saying "There is no smoke without fire", the eyewitnesses at the scene of the incident will come forward in a short time. The truth is like sunlight. They will show up eventually. In this, "The sun cannot be plastered with mud." It has been said. The person with personality disorder who slanders you will do the same thing to everyone else and give himself away. It just takes a little patience and time. Sometimes, psychotic patients may say bad things about you due to their delusions (irrational thoughts due to their illness). I have not seen a single woman who is notorious for this reason. For example: A middle-aged man with paranoid disorder brought his two brothers. While our patient believed that his wife was cheating on him and was trying to present the evidence he found on his own, his brothers said in unison, "Our aunt is a clean tulle silk and very honorable." Whether the slander against you is the delusions of a patient or the slander of a malicious personality disorder Eventually the truth will come to light. An example of this: I once had a case regarding the rent issue. The other party was so conscious that they were circumventing the law, I was speechless, I was breathing with anger. My young, newly graduated lawyer said: "Don't worry, they are used to exhibiting this behavior, we will wait silently and vigilantly." “They will leave so much evidence that you will be surprised.” said. They left more evidence than I really wanted. Even at this age, we still have a lot to learn. Even from young people…
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