One of the cases that I have come across most recently is women who have an indefinite and anonymous relationship. There is only one question in their minds and that is "what are we?"...
Today, I have noticed that (mostly) men show all kinds of interest towards the opposite sex, all kinds of activities and sharing are done; but when the other party implies something about the relationship, he says "I see you as a friend, I think you misunderstood my sincerity".
This situation creates shock, guilt and disappointment for women. Another version of this is men who say "I don't want a relationship, if you want to continue like this, I'm ok". They also think that they have shirked all responsibility because they had already stated their intentions. In other words, there will be no relationship, the dating will continue, and the man will not be able to "divert" the woman.
WHAT CAN BE THE REASONS?
The first of these is men who do not want to take responsibility. Those in this segment do not want routines in relationships (to be called, to call, to receive gifts, regular meetings, etc.). Apart from that, he gets to be with the woman he likes and desires.
Another group is afraid of the relationship due to many reasons such as past traumas, deceptions, unhealthy parental relationship and just wants to be flirty. Thus, he protects himself.
Another reason is clear, but bitter: the other party does not love his partner enough, but does not want to hold back. He does not let her out of his life, because he has certain gains, namely interests (sexuality, ending loneliness, having fun, spending time, etc.).
In light of my experience, my biggest advice to women (or men) in this type of relationship is to stay away from these relationships as much as possible and prevent your sense of self-worth from being permanently damaged. As the relationship continues, many negative situations such as anger, crying spells, lack of sense of self-worth, depression and anxiety are seen in the person.
I wish you a pleasant relationship that knows what you want, is honest and will make you feel valuable.
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