As parents, we all want our children to be able to raise their hands in class, ask the teacher if they do not understand, and express their thoughts. This situation is related to the concept we call "Self-Confidence".
Self-confidence means "the value a person places on himself". One of the indicators showing high self-confidence can be considered as the level of tolerance towards criticism and frustration. An individual with high self-confidence approaches criticism and restrictions more calmly, constructively and positively.
Sometimes, a child may describe himself with positive expressions, see himself as stronger and smarter than he actually is, and overreact to external criticism. For this reason, a child who behaves with a high self-confidence image may have low self-confidence.
Self-confidence begins to take shape at a very early age with the child's innate biological characteristics (temperament, intelligence, physical characteristics, etc.) and environmental influences. The first foundations of self-confidence are laid with the relationship established with the mother from the moment of birth. From this perspective, the relationships established within the family are very valuable for the development of self-confidence. After parents, teachers and peers have the biggest impact on a child's self-confidence.
Self-confidence development is a complex process that varies from child to child. For this reason, it is important to know the child well in order to develop self-confidence. Self-confidence is a phenomenon that can be constantly improved.
Some things families can do to raise self-confident children.
-
Showing love and offering the closeness and attention they expect when they need it.
-
Avoiding overprotective attitudes and giving age-appropriate responsibilities.
-
Giving tasks at home.
-
Accepting that there may be mistakes in what they do, staying away from negative labels, avoiding exaggerated criticism.
-
Not comparing the child with others.
-
Raising him by setting rules and limits appropriate to his age. Contrary to popular belief, rules increase self-confidence.
-
Encouraging him to participate in social activities (art, theater, sports, etc.) to get to know himself and his peers
-
Understanding one's role in society and To ensure that he/she is with other children and has a good time so that he or she gets to know him/her
-
To ensure that he/she establishes healthy relationships with his/her teachers
Read: 0
