Undoubtedly, child and adolescent psychology is very difficult. As a result, we have all been through these paths and we can empathize. We need to be with our children during these periods. Our children who are not supported during these periods may have problems in their social lives in the future. Therefore, it is absolutely essential that we support children at these ages. We must support our children and communicate with them with empathy, not only in adolescence but also in childhood and at all conceivable times. If this is done, our children will not have any problems or difficulties in their social lives in the future. In short, it is extremely important for the family to communicate with the child with empathy and support during these periods.
Postponing your child during these periods can be a great disaster for your child. Even though it may not be noticeable now, it may cause serious social problems in the future. Therefore, you should never postpone your child and spend quality time with him. This is very important for both your child and you. Children care about everything during this period. In other words, a miscommunication problem that begins within the family can negatively affect the child's development. Therefore, it is very important not to reflect family conversations onto the child. Our children are quite touchy during these periods. They can become obsessed with even a simple thing and become very upset. In short, it is extremely important for your child's development to keep conversations that may wear your child well within the family.
We can explain the psychologically disruptive things that may affect the child's development as follows:
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Sibling jealousy, the arrival of a new baby in the family.
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Divorce and separations.
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Lack of communication within the family.
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Family fights, gambling and unemployment.
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Difficulties starting school.
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Fear and anxiety disorders.
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Obsessive or compulsive repetitions.
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Psychological problem within the family.
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Night nightmares, waking up crying at night.
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Friend exclusions.
In this and similar situations, the child is bad. may be affected and may need personalized psychological treatment.
As we know, adolescence is the maturation of the child, and being ridiculed about the changes that may occur during adolescence affects the child extremely badly. In order to minimize such situations, the child should be approached with empathy and the child should be taught to choose his/her circle of friends wisely. No matter what, the child should not be subjected to excessive pressure at any time, both during childhood and adolescence. It should not be forgotten that the child may later fail in his/her social life.
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