The history of sexuality has survived to this day through the metaphors that were most frequently depicted, depicted, and used to convey to us the socio-cultural life of the period, even in ancient civilizations. It tells about the anxiety, anxiety and difficulties of the people of the period, as well as their happiness, pleasure and enjoyment.
So how did sexuality become a non-verbal language that tells so many things? Perhaps most of our unconscious processes are revealed in sexual dreams or in the satisfaction we experience during sexual intercourse. Most people become integrated and liberated by physical intimacy during sexual intercourse by melting both their sensual chemistry and emotional transfer in the same container, that is, the heart.
Sexual intimacy acts in our brain by acting through all sensory channels, that is, taste, smell, touch, vision and hearing. It responds with a hormonal load. The secreted hormones begin to act as a protective shield against mental tension and depression through renewal, repair and relaxation in our own body.
Of course, not all sexual intimacy can activate these mechanisms through physical intimacy alone. Feelings of like, love, being cared for, acceptance and trust also enable sexual intimacy that will activate the chemistry of our brain.
Sexual Harmony
Sexual harmony; Sexual knowledge and sexual satisfaction as well as sensual importance are achieved by providing mutual satisfaction conditions. For people and societies that are distant from their own sexuality, the concept of happiness turns into experiences that are affected by the conflict environment, ignored, and create emotional deprivations. Sexuality is often a point of contact where couples' conflicts are resolved or they take a break, renew themselves as if they are reborn, find peace and feel safe. The moment when bodies are integrated and become one, it shows us that the unresolved or wounded feelings that are made into a problem in an emotional relationship are actually issues that are reconcilable enough to be overcome.
Talking about sexual intimacy is not enough for couples who share the same bed but remain distant. It is not possible. Essentially, it is the lack of sexual intimacy that makes this distance insoluble. A happy sexual life is as effective as formatting the brain so that problems can be discussed. good breed It also opens the way for communication channels such as mutual empathy, problem solving, listening and understanding after hand togetherness. Both the positivity brought by the pleasure of sexual satisfaction and the physical well-being will show us that there is a way to justify the transfer of happiness through sexual means every time.
People have seen that they can achieve emotional approaches that they cannot talk about, express, resist and change, with sexual satisfaction. This situation actually shows how "creating desire through action" can happen sexually, even without desire. They use the same situation for the strength and desire to break down their resistance in order to solve their problems. In other words, sexuality can sometimes be experienced as an action to create communication channels.
How Should Sexuality Be Experienced?
Let's talk about how sexuality should be experienced to become a happy couple... In this regard, each couple may have their own special sexual approaches. The important thing is that both people can give feedback to each other by experiencing good or bad forms of intimacy while experiencing sexuality. Sexuality is a relationship that can be learned and improved. As we begin to step into adolescence, we begin to experience sexuality with a sense of curiosity after both hormonal and perceptual expansion. The sexual adventure that begins with masturbation begins to develop its own sexual life after each experience with adult sexuality. During sexual moments, couples will need to accompany each other with certain rhythmic movements in order to achieve harmony. This creates vital relational resources that can accompany life. In other words, people who take care of both their own and their partner's sexual satisfaction mutually observe and color the same harmony for emotional closeness.
Couples can express their love and appreciation for each other more easily during sexual intercourse. Both of them should be the courting party, without any order of priority, in creating the environment and conditions they want for sexual intercourse. Of course, physical hygiene should be taken into consideration and a romantic environment should be created. It would be very stylish to create ambient temperature and spatial harmony for a provocative sexuality. Not every sexual intimacy has to result in orgasm for sexual satisfaction. As such, sexual intercourse should be seen as a pleasurable closeness.
For the party who does not feel emotionally ready, the language of love should be shown, even if non-verbally, with hugs of affection and trust, without sexual coercion.
Let's not forget that love; It is the true face of sexually transmitted passion.
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