Hello everyone, today we will be talking about a sexual dysfunction that looks bigger than it actually is because it was delayed. Our topic is "VAGINISMUS".
First of all, vaginismus is a couple's problem that not only women but also men and women suffer emotionally, physically and spiritually. Emotions such as uneasiness, fear, anxiety, disappointment may accompany the couple while vaginismus continues. Roughly speaking, it can be described as a very painful, painful, bleeding or inability to experience sexual intercourse due to excessive contraction of the love muscles (pelvic floor muscles) of women during sexual intercourse. Women who experience this may have a reflex to close their legs by pushing their husbands, and may not want to go to the gynecological examination table, so they may avoid being examined. At the same time, they may not feel comfortable and may not allow their spouses to look at and touch their vaginas. On the other hand, they may feel lonely and marginalized because they cannot talk much about the problem they are experiencing. Especially the discourses of the people around them about the expectation of a baby may make their spouses feel inadequate, unsuccessful, different (excluded) and angry in this process. Inability to experience sexuality, which is one of the important parts of the relationship, with the desired satisfaction; It can cause arguments between couples to increase, often turning into physical and emotional tensions, and sometimes even bodily pain.
So what wrong treatment methods do couples use in this process and what is the solution for vaginismus?
Couples Sometimes, they may choose the wrong ways and methods from the channels where there is information pollution, while trying these ways, they may feel a little more hopeless after each unsuccessful attempt. We can list the most commonly used methods as follows;
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Trying sexual intercourse by consuming alcohol
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Anesthetic (drug) lotions to the vulva (around the vagina) application
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Removing the hymen with surgical procedures
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Trying to have lupricant sexual intercourse without following our body's sexual response cycle
Methods listed above There may be a large number of couples who believe that vaginismus is unresolved due to incorrect or incomplete applications, apart from medical practices. There is no physiological application here; Only during the interviews, which are advanced dialectically and in which the couples mostly participate together: sexuality is reconsidered and defined with its many emotional, intellectual, behavioral and physiological dimensions. Misconceptions about sexuality, sexual myths and urban legends, our sexual anatomy, male and female sexuality and its stages are reconstructed. It should not be forgotten that sexuality is a multidimensional and learnable phenomenon. For this reason, you can get the support of an expert working in the field of Sex Therapy without delaying and making the problem bigger than it is, be very kind to yourself, goodbye.
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