I would like to start this article with the dilemma that exists on all special days; and “Is it a woman's day?” As a woman, I embrace with love those who say "Women's Day" and those who try to find solutions to women's troubles and problems.
Because woman means love most of all.
Woman means so many things... For example, being a woman means sincerity. Woman means mother, of course it means estrogen, and woman means the balance between power and sensuality.
WHEN YOU SEE MARRIAGE, IT IS A WOMAN!
A person who grows up in the hands of a woman, whether she is a woman or not. A man can only become stronger with her protective and inclusive feminine power.
When a woman begins to realize her own power, she enlarges everyone around her, especially herself. That's why in marriage, a woman always remains a bit of a mother to her husband, who is raised by another woman.
However, in today's conditions, women also have other responsibilities and roles that are far beyond this motherhood role. For example, he has to work and earn money; has to develop a career; As for the mother, she has to raise her children, which must be the most difficult job in the world: "raising a human being"; One has to think about children's school, homework, work, vaccinations, love and work. And it has to get out of all this by establishing a balance without being crushed.
THE POWER YOU NEED IS HIDDEN IN THE ESTROGEN TRAVELING IN YOUR HORMONES!
Estrogen is a miraculous hormone and it always makes women a little stronger than men. The superiority of women, who have a stronger immune system than men, starting in the womb, is also effective in the fact that the healthy birth rate of female babies is much higher than that of male babies. Women are again more resistant to men when it comes to contracting many diseases.
In addition, women can find their route more easily by using their emotions better than men.
THE WOMAN HAS NO NAME!
However, this genetic superiority must have frightened men because the wonderful features of women have always been maligned and advertising studies have been carried out on the concept of "being like a man". Talking like a woman, dancing like a woman, dressing like a woman, crying like a woman, even women are women with the consistency of the "BE A MAN!" propaganda. He believed that it was not a good thing to be.
WHAT IS IN HIS ESSENCE: A WOMAN IS A WONDERFUL BEING.
Behind this false advertisement is the woman's ability to carry out all her roles successfully, her ability to establish balance in her life, and her elegance and inclusiveness.
IF A WOMAN WANTS...
A woman's power becomes functional only when she is aware of her power. A woman who is unaware of her potential suffers with the feminine energy she does not use.
There is no limit to what a woman can achieve if she wishes. Even if she has to start by convincing those around her, no obstacle will stop her on her way.
MOST RESPONSIBILITIES REQUIRE A GOOD STRATEGY.
So, if a woman is such a perfect being, why is there so much sadness and sadness in her life? Got stress and despair?
One possible hypothesis for this is "may not be aware." His power, his energy, his potential... Secondly, he may need to learn strategy.
What I mean by strategy is; Being able to separate, ask for support, postpone and put things in order when necessary in order to play as many roles successfully.
It is not wise to do everything alone and at the same time. In this situation, the quality of the product you make is also negatively affected.
CREATE YOUR SUPPORT MECHANISM AND KNOW YOUR RESOURCES.
Do not hesitate to ask for help. Being able to leave your child with your mother or a friend for an hour does not make you a worse mother. On the contrary, a resource you will use during that period will make you a better and stronger mother.
Asking for support from your spouse regarding the children or the responsibilities of the house will not make you a worse spouse. On the contrary, shared responsibilities at home make you more of a family.
What I mean by source is "work or habits that you enjoy doing, relax and nourish yourself". For example, taking a walk, taking a long shower, going to the hairdresser, reading a book, dancing... or anything else that comes to my mind.
If you don't have a source, your first job should be to search and find it. Think about behaviors that relax you. Try something new and try to find what works best for you.
Discover and complete the areas you are lacking in, such as putting your work in order, not trying to be perfect, stretching, and good time planning. Do not hesitate to get professional support for this.
Being a woman is something to be celebrated. I congratulate all women with love.
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