According to the meaning attributed to marriage, marriage begins, continues, or ends.
If love is what brings two individuals together, then the secret of a happy marriage is not really a secret...
1.) Be Natural!
You don't always use expressions like "my love", "my dear", "my baby", "my life" etc., or you cannot use them, sometimes you can use different expressions. A word that contains words comes out of your mouth, but what you need to pay attention to here is respect! When you get angry, call him by his name, for example, even if something bad comes out of your mouth, say his name ugly, for example :) You will give the same reaction again and actually express your anger again.
2.) Don't hinder him, support him!
Because while doing this, he should treat you the same way and your behavior will become internalized, even so much so that he won't disrespect your work, your environment or your family, let alone do it, he will even gain sympathy, believe me, this becomes even more enjoyable. .
3.)Share Life!
Because sharing is really nice. Your pain decreases as you share it. Your joy increases as you share.
Share both the bitter and the sweet so that he knows the points you are angry at and the points you love...
In other words, your spouse should know your limits well.
4.)The female bird builds the nest!
Unfortunately, due to their brain structure, men are not as curvy and detail-oriented as we are. Actually, we call this unfortunately, but here we expect women to try their all-powerful power on their husbands, and we know that every woman can bring her husband to the point she wants, if she wants.
As they say, your spouse can also disgrace you:)
5.) Learn from Each Other!
Studies show that as we learn, brain chemistry changes and this chemistry reinforces all kinds of emotions.
Then we say that you should learn the points that your partner is good at, and let him learn the points that you are good at, so that your love will be strengthened :)
6.)Divide the Labor!
Try to do everything together at home, or even if you can't do it together, divide the work. It creates and develops the sense of identity.
7.) Remember that you can solve everything by talking!
Two people love each other, but outside There are definitely people who want to cause trouble when it comes to the external door latches, especially if they are women, or if they are people with bad intentions. A happy marriage, a happy couple and two people who share a good life get along, unfortunately, get jealous and get jealous. This can happen at a normal point, but if people with pathological conditions with bad intentions are involved. to your marriage... Explain, talk to your spouse, he/she already sees everything one by one.
The only difference from us is that they do not express everything. They see it, they act accordingly, but we women never remain silent :) don't do this!
It's not worth it for those poor people who feed on the nonsense unhappiness and chaos that try to come between you, believe me, just laugh at their poorness. Because if they are truly happy, they will add beauty to your home, but if there are people who throw stones at their lives, look at their lives, they are living a life they do not want, that is why they have not achieved the things you have achieved. So know what they are and stay away, let them drown in their own pit. Don't let them smother you.
8.) Value her!
Do things that will make her feel valuable, but never fake. Like wiping the sweat from your forehead when you are sick. Like making herbal tea for him. This will be good for both of you and your relationship will become stronger.
9.)Do activities together!
strong>Doing something together means experiencing the same physical and spiritual states. Look, observe, for example... What does he like more when he does sports or what kind of food makes him happier when cooking...
10.) Smile!
And lastly, smile without forgetting that he/she is your spouse...
And most importantly, don't forget that a sweet tongue can pull even a snake out of its hole :)
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