Psychological Counselor Yasemin Ateş; "I studied hard for the exam and did not include social activities," said the young YGS winner, and I am worried about the students who will take him as a role model. Suspending our lives for academic success does not represent real success. I recommend psychological support to this young man. Even though he has been working hard lately Students suffering from a 'feeling of inadequacy' began to fill my counseling room. They do not sleep, they do not eat, they do not see their friends. They shuttle back and forth between schools, courses, studies, and private lessons. They writhe with anxiety within the framework of perfectionism. This statement added salt to all of them. Families "They also support these attitudes and they are not aware of how much emotional harm they are causing to their children. As an expert, I can say that all of this is the basis of a huge wound, you are doing it wrong." Ateş said, "The message you are giving to your children without realizing it is ' 'Competition is very important, nothing else matters. You are not enough, you have to work harder.' However, for a qualified person with proper personality development, it is very important for young people of this age to engage in at least one branch of art and sports. It is also very important for young people to meet with their peers, share and cooperate in groups in order to develop their social skills. We are raising a generation that does not read books. Students have come to accept the paragraph questions asked in Turkish questions as reading. Turkey needs to raise qualified young people. This is not an individual but also a social problem. When time management is done correctly, a student can prepare for the exam and spare time for entertainment. He can integrate with life without feeling guilty. "If you cannot achieve this balance, you should get support from experts and guidance counselors at schools," he said.
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