Aware of the fact that we cannot control every life event that happens in our lives, perhaps we all need to make a healthy retrospective evaluation, set new achievable goals and make plans as we enter the new year...
At this point, it is simple for you. But we have a few effective suggestions:
- Do meaningful things together. For example, you can participate in charity activities and volunteering activities.
- Learn new things together. You can attend a cooking workshop together, take a dance class, or even try learning a foreign language. Being able to do things regularly will strengthen your relationship in the long run.
- Stay more "in the moment" together. Make sure you are 100 percent present when you are together. It is necessary to stay away from technology when we are together, to focus on your partner, the relationship and your togetherness, to establish deep bonds and experience more meaningful moments.
- Just talking? Communicate? Correct communication is an indicator that the relationship will be healthy in the long term. Take care to listen to the other person, understand what they want and what they really feel.
- Continue to keep sex among your priorities. Look for ways to keep romance and love alive. Make plans to save your relationship from monotony.
- Focus on more win-win scenarios. Although arguing is a natural part of relationships, how you argue and how you resolve your disagreements and problems is very important. The reason you cannot find a solution to some situations may be that you focus on solutions where one loses and the other wins. If you want to have a more harmonious relationship in 2019, you should focus on solutions that win for both parties.
- In some cases, instead of sharing what is on your mind with your partner, you may choose to remain silent and not express your feelings and thoughts. However, this method is not a functional method for solving problems. Ignoring problems and remaining silent will only perpetuate the problem.
- Do not forget to check your relationship regularly. Sometimes you think the relationship is going well, but your partner may not think the same or not comment on the issue. In your relationship with these controls While identifying troublesome points, you can also create opportunities to appreciate the good things each other does. Over time, you will see how useful this work is.
·Don't forget to have fun together. As the relationship becomes routine, the enjoyment of the relationship may decrease. From time to time, you can go back to the beginning of the relationship and remember those days and try to do the fun things you did back then. In addition, sometimes you can feel happier and more satisfied by trying new things or even doing ridiculous funny things.
·It should not be forgotten that small problems that are not solved in time can cause major crises. Do not hesitate to get help for the right intervention at the right time.
Let your magic wand, efforts and patience be yours to make your relationship more fun, more exciting and more satisfying in 2019, even if it is not perfect.
2019 Hoping you have a nice year.
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