From the moment a child is born, married couples forget that they are husband and wife and take on the role of only parents, and unconsciously begin to maintain their family system in this way. Although it is not seen that there is any problem here at first with the excitement of a new born baby, problems may begin to arise within the family as the roles of being a couple and being a wife are put into the background.
It is impossible to say that this is the case in all families, but in general. When we look at it, after a woman becomes a mother, she puts her child at the center of her life and her relationship turns into a dependent rather than a dependent one. Of course, we should not forget the great role of the father in the dependency of his relationship with his child, which we will share in our later articles if you wish.
After a while, the spouses start to call each other as their mother and father. It causes the sharing between them to decrease or even to end, and it continues with the increase of the arguments and later fights of the couples who start to question the marriage system. They forget that they are married, they are spouses and they have a private life, and they shape their lives according to their children.
The basis of the marriage system is the sharing of the couples. If we think about it and now it has become only child-oriented without any sharing, the system is starting to suffer fundamentally.
If we are faced with such a situation, it is not too late for anything, let's remind this right away, the best thing we can do is parents. It will be to remember and remind that we are husband and wife as much as we are. By increasing the shares, spending time alone, chatting, laughing, and continuing to collect good memories, it will be easier for you to remember that you are a spouse again. And the moment the words of mother and father are replaced by words full of healing that are good for each other's souls, the satisfaction in their marriage will begin to increase.
So, let's remember that we are husband and wife, will we not spare any time for our children, will we be just the two of us? No, of course… a person has more than one role in his life, carrying only one role on us all the time harms us and those around us. For example, with your child While there are good times as a family, doing something alone with your spouse, going somewhere, will help you feel better. will make a great contribution. Let's not forget that it is very important for children to witness the healthy relationship between their parents and to grow up in a happy marriage, and for their future relationships. , we should experience marital satisfaction and pay attention to raising our children in a happy family.
With love
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