What is going on, despite all the difficulties, just when we found each other and got life on track, my wife
moves away from me? Why can't we see the initial excitement, interest and love in him? Doesn't love continue
? Does marriage kill love? Or does living together make marriage monotonous? E
Of course, when children are involved, we are stuck in the confusion of whether to be a spouse or a parent.
We know that the problems are communication problems and not being able to communicate. Even though love
comes after it, the end of passion and lust in marriage leads the marriage to a blind spot.
Only love cannot hold a marriage together, as you know, people spend most of their twenties
to have a good time and spend a lifetime together. He/she wants to give up being anchored in someone's life, with feelings such as postponing commitment, and enjoy life, so to speak. Because marriage is perceived as
dedication, effort, labor and enduring difficulties. And indeed, one day
you wake up in the morning and the man or woman next to us is actually someone with whom you cannot continue this life
to the end. And the marriage begins to struggle. So, if the reputation of marriage is over and the majority of people are trying to get divorced, why are people still trying to get married? It must be said that
love is the main reason for marriage to exist, but I think we have made it a little bigger than we expected
. Because we have forgotten lust, which has a stronger power of attraction than love.
The power of lust is an irresistible force. A man who is in the throes of lust for a woman
may cheat on the mother of his children, forget moral obligations, and lose common sense. Because
love does not have much of a chance against the overwhelming power of lust.
When marriages are deprived of lust and passion, when emotions cannot be expressed, when you cannot spare time for passion, when you remove it from your life, the marriage begins to crumble and you wonder what will happen in our marriage
br /> You start to wonder if love is over. Marriages are in a very sad state these days. Because
unfortunately, the power of lust is not in you. The most effective feeling of a happy marriage is to desire and to be heard. Just because you love your father and mother, we have to live with them for the rest of our lives. you don't hear it. But to get a woman or a man you desire, you may wait for years, just like waiting in a shopping queue.
Let's go after your forgotten feelings. Where are we making mistakes? Do we constantly criticize and judge our spouse? Let's identify negative thoughts and create positive perspectives instead.
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