Be humble on the inside, but don't look like one. To be truly humble, you need to be confident. Those who are confident in their knowledge, beauty, personality and actions are more open to criticism. They use criticism to negotiate and do a better job. But still, for those who don't know you well, your clothing, upright posture, and sitting position are very important. You are welcomed with the way you dress and sent off with your mind. Don't take it easy on me. Because you will unnecessarily fall into the hands of a predator, be despised by a vile person, and get angry for no reason.
I am looking at my daughter, who is normally a healthy teenager and is preparing for ÖSS. 3 days before the primary exam, with his hair all greasy and his sweatpants that he hasn't taken off for days, this period is very surprising. In fact, my daughter, who does not even go to the shopping mall with inappropriate clothes, goes to her classroom or school without combing her hair. His entire concentration is on achieving and gaining his identity in life. A situation that is understandable today can turn into a bad habit. While you are constantly planning to produce and continue to produce, others can turn their attention to your efforts.
Once upon a time, while I was running around with my two little children, my sick wife and two jobs, my neighbors who did not notice my babysitter walking my little daughter and who had nothing better to do than gossip on the balcony, followed me. “How did he become a doctor? He doesn't know how to dress appropriately. "They said. However, it is not necessary to be a scholar to know how to dress, gird yourself, and do make-up. A tasteful shop assistant or a skilled hairdresser can change your appearance, but no university can replace gossips. The nanny, who learned from this, disguised herself as the princess of the house and did not do any work at home. She started using my name as a nickname for her lovers. More than that, the people to whom you distribute services based on the work you do sometimes measure your professional quality by your wristwatch, jewelry, and car. They may not be able to see your modesty, inner wealth, and knowledge at first glance.
Isn't it the same in the television world. “PRECIOUS” and “FAMOUS” are confused. While those with crow voices, low-cut hair, aesthetics, perverted identities, and disgraceful lives became the headliners, his compositions and lyrics were written by himself or herself. In my opinion, you may never even see a very valuable person on stage who does not dress inappropriately and has a normal family life.
Just like too much compassion, too much modesty is not good. Only people who know how to handle you will come to your aid, drain you and still be ungrateful. "A disease arises from mercy, and the one who is very merciful becomes the one to be shown mercy." That's why I made the title of our little-known proverbs such as the one about the evil of too much modesty. You only distinguish and feel sorry for people who consider our modesty as pathetic and our goodness as stupidity when we are in a difficult situation. Do not show humility and mercy to those who do not deserve it.
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