Continuously or repetitively, little or no desire to have sexual fantasies, little or no frequency of sexual intercourse and reaching orgasm, initiation, participation or response to a sexual activity, taking into account the age and living conditions of the person lack of motivation.
The most common sexual dysfunction among women; is sexual aversion. However, the rate of applying to a sexual therapist with complaints of sexual reluctance is low. The reason is the myths about sexuality. In our culture, while sexuality is peculiar to men, men have the right to want sex, to enjoy it and to reach satisfaction; sexuality is a field of duty for women. Many women perceive this as a natural state and live in this way. However, the natural thing is that sexuality is a means of "pleasure" and "satisfaction" for women, and that women also need it. It is common in conservative societies and cultures where sexuality is prohibited. As a natural result of sexual prohibitions and pressures, feelings of guilt and guilt about sexuality, suppression of sexual instincts gradually lead to the alienation of the individual from sexuality and even from his own body. The reason for this is that men apply with the complaint of loss of erection, whereas most often, loss of erection is due to a decrease in sexual interest and desire. Another reason for the lack of applicants is the sexual myth that “men are always ready for sexuality under all conditions” and this myth prevents men from seeking help.
There is no value or number that determines the level of sexual desire. The important thing is that the frequency of the couple's desire for sex is close.
REASONS OF SEXUAL REluctance
1-Myths
2- Stress
3-Incompatibility with the spouse, conflicts and loss of interest in the spouse
4-Lack of sexual skills in the spouse
5-Other sexual dysfunctions existing in or in the spouse
6- Depression, anxiety and other psychiatric disorders
7- Various chronic diseases
8- Conditions causing hyperprolactinemia
9- Drugs used: Mainly depression drugs, lithium, some blood pressure medications, some drugs used in the treatment of psychosis Medications
10-Alcohol and drug use
11-Menopause
12-Pregnancy and lactation periods
13- Sexual violence and sexual trauma
14-Fear of losing control
15-Fear of pregnancy, not wanting to have children
16- Low level of sexual hormones
17 -Long-term abstinence
18- Concerns about age or attractiveness
19- Personality issues
20-Homosexuality
21- Sexual Avoidance
22-Masked Paraphilias (sexual perversions)
SEXUAL REluctance TREATMENT
Therapies can only be performed by therapists specialized in this field.
Sexual reluctance may occur from the beginning of adulthood or may appear later. Having a long period of normal sexual desire at the beginning may mean that there may be a better response to the treatment. intended to be removed. The important thing is to find and remove the factors that prevent sexual desire and to awaken the hidden desires and fantasies of the person.
Although drug treatments are partially effective, personalized Sexual Therapy,
strong> is the most effective method in solving the problem. With Sex Therapy, relationship problems can be resolved, performance anxiety and fear of failure can be eliminated, and negative judgments in the mind can be realized and changed. Sex life in relationships should be healthy. Therefore, help should be sought without wasting time.
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