Some people love to brag about their masculinity and talk about their flirtatious adventures among their friends. These men, most of whom are young, have made it a habit to have performance-oriented sex. However, a great danger awaits them. A black hole is rapidly approaching them, preparing to swallow them, and they are not even aware of it. I'm sure everyone has witnessed, at least once in their lives, male "half" beings who lived very fast in their youth, but suddenly collapsed after a certain age, lost their self-confidence and aged prematurely. Is this just the price of living fast in youth? Can too much sex in the past wear out a man this much? Where does the problem actually come from? What could have happened when it was going so “well”? Or was a spell cast? In this article, I will try to tell you the real face of this matter.
Every young man has a mythological world that he has developed regarding his sex image and penis, partly due to ignorance and partly due to wrong learning. Accordingly, the sexual organ called penis;
1- It will become erect immediately whenever desired.
2- It will be hard as iron.
3- It will never descend during intercourse
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4- He will not ejaculate until he satisfies the woman
5- If he wishes, he will be ready for the second one in a very short time.
Experiencing this mythological world in an exaggerated way is a thing in itself. is the problem. The person considers having performance and goal-oriented sex as a skill. Many men at a young age can easily achieve this. But here there is no feeling, there is no break from time, and most importantly, there is no orgasm. A man ejaculates physically, but he has never experienced that orgasm in which his soul also ejaculates. On the other hand, the person feels very strong as a masculine.
But the real problem is that every value, every power we have brings with it the fear of losing it. Over time, the lust provoked by myths inevitably begins to be replaced by these fears of loss. Fear is such a strong emotion that no emotion of equal weight can even cope with it. And the brain starts to work;
1- What if I can't get hard?
2- What if during intercourse? if it comes down
If I ejaculate immediately as soon as I turn 3
The lust in the man has begun to fade away and the dominance of fear has taken its place. As a result, the man becomes a spectator watching his own body in bed. He just can't focus on that moment. He is now a stranger at the bedside, watching the people in the bed. It's not a big problem, partly because the person can still have "sex". Until a moment or a time comes... Sometimes a simple, completely random negative experience can trigger the formation of a huge avalanche. In fact, that small detail is a piece of stone that broke off from the top of the mountain. But it caused an avalanche. This avalanche cannot be stopped anymore, it grows bigger and bigger and the man gets caught under that avalanche. Negative thoughts have gradually taken over the whole person; I have some erectile dysfunction; Will there be more?
3- Now I either can't get an erection at all or it goes down immediately during intercourse.
4- I think there is something wrong with me, impotence is starting
5 - I took supplements and failed again. I am absolutely impotent now.
And the inevitable end; A MAN in his middle years who has serious erectile dysfunction, with or without medication. Of course, it is not difficult to predict what will happen next for this man who watches the "wealth" in his hands go by moment by moment and cannot do anything. A great devastation and depression...
That man, who once labeled himself "impotent", now starts wandering from urologist to urologist. Tests are carried out and he is told that there is nothing wrong with him and that the problem is "just psychological". He is advised not to worry, that he should be comfortable, and performance drugs are prescribed. Not only do medications not work, but the feeling of being dependent on medication further fuels the person's internal conflicts. This is the point that is not understood. The person didn't just lose his penis. What he really lost is hidden under the iceberg. The man has lost all faith in his masculine nature. Therefore, medications and belittling "don't worry about it" type suggestions are of no use.
So how about bringing this man back to life and becoming a man? What should be done to bring his nature back to him? What to do is clear. Resetting the system completely and reprogramming it in a healthier way. Only a doctor or psychologist who is competent and experienced in sexual therapy can achieve this. The way to stay away from such a threat is to experience sexuality by just feeling the moment and focusing only on pleasure, without attaching unnecessary meaning to the penis-vagina union (coitus), without chasing the target score. Because sexuality is a very big world and it is never just about the penis entering the vagina. If you think and live it this way, you can have an active and beautiful sexual life for the rest of your life. If not, it is only a matter of time before the prophecy I mentioned above comes true for you.
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