First of all, this condition is not called "impotence". Its cool name is “erectile dysfunction”, Turkish for “erectile dysfunction”. It is also referred to as "erectile dysfunction" in some sources. But this is definitely not impotence. It's actually quite important to stop defining it that way. Power literally means "power". What determines a man's strength is not the erection of his penis. A man whose penis does not become erect does not lose his power. Defining this situation as such and attaching too much importance to erection is actually one of the reasons for this.
Let's start by getting to know the organ called the penis. Penis is one of the male sexual organs. In fact, it is the first organ that comes to mind when male sexual organ is mentioned. It is an extremely important organ both in terms of reproduction and male sexual pleasure. It consists of a head and a body. It contains plenty of pleasure-giving nerve endings both in its head and body. It is the area where a man gets the most sexual pleasure.
A channel called urethra passes through the penis. Both urine and semen, a white liquid containing sperm cells, pass through this canal during ejaculation. There are no bones inside the penis. The body of the penis has a spongy structure. It is this spongy structure that provides erection. During sexual arousal, blood flow concentrates towards this area, the spongy structure fills with blood, thus the penis becomes hard and erect, that is, it becomes erect.
As can be seen, the erection of the penis is basically a physiological event. However, we should not forget that our most important sexual organ is our brain. Physical stimulation is not necessarily required for sexual arousal and erection to occur. In other words, it is not necessary for the penis to be directly stimulated by a woman. A man's sexual fantasies, that is, just thinking about sexuality, can provide stimulation and erection.
From here we see that erection is also a psychological event. Then we can draw the following conclusion from all this: erectile dysfunction may be of physiological origin or psychological origin. In fact, we know that erectile dysfunction, especially seen at young ages (under 60) The source of mental disorders is mostly psychological. Especially performance anxiety (Will I be successful? Will I be able to satisfy my partner sufficiently?) and negative experiences are among the important reasons for this situation.
First of all, I must say that it is quite normal for a healthy man to experience erection difficulties from time to time. If you experience this situation, do not panic immediately, “Oh no! Don't think, "I have erectile dysfunction." What you are experiencing may be a temporary situation. In fact, a normal and temporary erectile dysfunction situation may lead you to wonder "Will it happen again?" before other relationships. It creates a state of anxiety such as this, and this anxiety may cause erectile dysfunction to occur again. However, if this situation is persistent and you experience this in every relationship, then it would be beneficial for you to look for a solution.
So how does erectile dysfunction manifest itself? We generally see this happen in three ways. In the first case, erection does not occur at all. Even though there is sexual stimulation, the penis does not respond to this stimulation and does not become erect. In the second case, there is an initial erection, but this does not continue during sexual intercourse. During foreplay or while the penis is inside the vagina, the penis loses its hardness before orgasm occurs. In the third case, erection occurs slightly, but this erection is not at a level that allows sexual intercourse.
If you constantly experience such situations, you may have erectile dysfunction. First of all, it is very important to start by accepting this situation. First of all, try not to interpret this situation as a disaster. This is a situation that every man can experience. Don't worry, you haven't lost your power. As I said at first, it is best to avoid using the word power.
The first specialist you should go to is a urologist. Physiological examinations should be performed first. If there is no physiological reason behind your erectile dysfunction, then it would be beneficial for you to receive psychotherapy. Erectile dysfunction can be eliminated especially with Cognitive-Behavioral therapies. For this, it is enough to consult a sexual therapist or psychotherapist.
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