In addition to specializing in psychology or psychiatry, people who have completed a special training program in the field ofsexual therapy can perform sexual therapy. Sexual therapy is a special field of expertise and special training must be received in this regard for the treatment of sexual dysfunctions. In particular, it should be learned where the institution where the training is received and whether it provides training in line with ethical principles. As a clinical psychologist, I completed my 4-year sexual therapy training at the Sexual Education, Treatment and Research Association (CETAD), one of the leading associations in this field.
What does a sexual therapist do?
1-Gives basic sexual life information to individuals and couples during sexual therapy. Basic physiological information about men and women, stages of sexual activity, common misconceptions about sexuality and similar information are information that will be necessary for many couples throughout their lives. I think that especially in societies like ours, where healthy sexual information is not given at an early age and where sexuality is viewed as a shame and a taboo, the sexual therapist should provide this basic information in the applications made to him, regardless of the problem, and this is his responsibility.
2-It treats/treats sexual dysfunctions such as vaginismus, premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, sexual desire disorders, orgasm disorder. These treatments are carried out through various homework assignments and studies. These homework and studies are explained in detail during the sexual therapy session. The person or couple does these practices at home and comes to the next session. How the study went is discussed, evaluated by the therapist, and a new study is planned.
3- He thinks and emphasizes that sexuality is a whole. If he observes that there are problems/deficiencies/misinformation in love during sexual therapy, he also helps the individual and the couple on those issues. For example, if the application problem is vaginismus, but he receives information that the couple has problems with their lovemaking, he gives certain tips and information that the couple will benefit from, so that both parties are satisfied.
4- If you come with your spouse, In the process of resolving sexual problems, the couple can improve their communication and problem-solving skills. He also tries to improve. During sexual therapy sessions, he constantly tries to explain to the couple, both verbally and through his own attitude and behavior, that sexuality can be discussed freely, just like any other subject. In other words, when talking about sexuality, the tone of voice is not timid or anxious, and the body language is relaxed and self-confident, creating a model for the applicant or the couple. When the therapy sessions are over, the aim is for them to be a couple who are comfortable with sexual communication and who have overcome any difficulties in expressing their own feelings and thoughts.
Sexuality is a normal part of life and it is important to obtain accurate and healthy sexual information for a fulfilling sexual life. You can consult sexual therapists for both information and treatment of any sexual disorder.
Best wishes,
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