Marriage Therapy Reduces Divorces

Marriage is a process in which a man and a woman will travel together in all stages of life until the end of their lives, which is considered the second period of human life after birth and the beginning of the concept of "Family".

The reality of a couple. What they experience when they are left alone with the realities of life after the LOVE period in which the ability to evaluate is lost;

• Communication deficiencies,
• Problems in relatives' relations
• Economic problems,
• Reflections of the problems experienced in business life,
• Disagreements in the care and responsibilities of children,
• Problems such as adaptation problems in their sexual life (sexual reluctance, vaginismus, erection and premature ejaculation problems). Their marriage starts to go wrong and there is a lot of conflict between the couple.

What are the signs of unhappiness or the possibility of divorce in marriages that are not going well?

If the couple focuses on the Negative aspects of the process they are going through rather than the Positive aspects

Criticism, Defensive approach, underestimating the other person, If Negative Emotions such as aggressive behavior, putting pressure on the other party are revealed

If there is a relationship in which compassion, humor, excitement, support and communication decrease and emotional disconnection and withdrawal are intense,

If the couple has repeatedly tried to fix their problems among themselves or with external interventions, but they have not been successful

If one or both of the couples have Addiction problems such as Alcohol, Gambling, or use physical or verbal violence, are in emotional and sexual infidelity ,

If one or both of the couples have a psychotic disorder,

If the couple's friendship and desire to spend time together has decreased and they are in more contact with others such as their own family or friends, problems may occur. It means that it has increased considerably.

When to Apply for Marriage Therapy?

Unfortunately, in my twenty-year career, couples still come to us at the point where their relationships are stuck, saying "Let's either go to a lawyer or a Marriage Therapist for divorce." However, how should we maintain a healthy relationship before problems even begin? If they ask themselves the question, they will be able to take precautions before possible problems occur.

For this reason, our aim as Therapists in Marriage Therapy is;

• To enable the couple to express their emotional problems in a healthy way, to show them the facts behind the problems they experience, to find various solutions with different perspectives together, to reveal the resentful, pugnacious, resentful child within them. To help them grow up until they become an adult,
• To help them replace the emotional reactions they experience with the reactions an adult can give by revealing childhood feelings such as Abandonment, Rejection, Suffocation, Worthlessness, and Unlove,
• If they have defense mechanisms that we consider pathological, to help them use appropriate control and defenses instead,
• Most importantly, if they have children, to make suggestions to prevent the children from experiencing emotional trauma in this process and to help them get through this process with the least harm.
• While doing all this, by being fair, balanced, never taking sides, by supporting the couple to take responsibility, by enabling them to gain insight through the right confrontations at the right time, they will transform the next periods of their lives with "I" To help them live by ensuring that they can be WE, without losing their identity, by respecting YOU.

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