'Human' has been reproducing, developing, changing for centuries... Lifestyles, value judgments, parental attitudes, etc. People become children first and then parents. Like many things, parenting attitudes are passed on from generation to generation.
As parents, we all want the best for our children, and we do our best to make our children know that they are loved, feel happy and be successful. While a few of us strive to be effective and correct parents by going beyond the traditional understanding, most of us continue to raise children by taking for granted the understanding of education we received from our own parents.
We do everything to ensure that our children are fed, do not get sick, and receive a good academic education. The parent makes an effort within his means. However, while doing all this, we ignore the psychosocial development of our children.
Look at these words on a tablet from the Sumerians (3500-1900 BC): "Grow up now. Go to school, study. Don't wander up and down the streets." "You torment me morning and evening. You waste your time for entertainment, morning and evening." Isn't it surprising that words said approximately four thousand years ago remain so current?'
It is not difficult to understand why we cannot persistently change our parenting attitudes while the world is changing so rapidly. Because, as a society, we fall into the misconception that being a parent with traditional transfers and instincts is enough.
When we look at our society today, we can observe that most adults carry 'childhood psychopathology'. (intolerance; murders in traffic, fights, obsessions in relationships, ego concerns, low self-perception….)
I think the biggest added value we can add to our society is to raise healthy generations by aiming to be effective parents.
In parenting programs, you are informed about the social, emotional and mental development needs of early childhood and how to meet them. In addition, you learn the underlying reasons for children's challenging behaviors and how you should intervene in these behaviors.
Thus;
You reduce your concerns about the roles of mother and father and capture more quality and fun moments with your children,
It creates a strong and secure bond between parents and children,
As your children grow, you guide their development with firm steps.
So come together to ensure that future generations are stronger, happier, "Let's do our best" so that they can become people who know what they want and how to enjoy the moment, and who do not give too much space to worries and obsessions in their lives.
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