We are not like the old days anymore. Informative broadcasts are made on television or on the internet every day. You open a channel and they say "WANTED EMPLOYEES" and job seekers immediately pick up the phone and apply to the job posting. You change the channel... They say keep your children away from 3T, that is, tablets, phones and televisions, and you think they are right, and that's great, and you learn this from television. You change the channel, they give you solution suggestions for blood pressure patients, diabetics, those with a herniated disc, you listen and try to apply it at home... Does it seem useful? Of course, advertisements and experts are right at home. Yes, technology has its beneficial aspects, but it also has many disadvantages, even in a way that reflects on our relationships.
In a life full of buts, isn't there any buts of technology? Of course there is. Well, come on then... What seems like a positive thing in the name of technology is actually eating away at romantic relationships day by day. How Does? For example, with the message system... You want to chat with your friends, you pick up your phone, your lover or spouse sees this message and gets jealous. Is it unfair? Maybe not, maybe it's unfair. And of course there is an afterthought to this. Everyone now has profiles on different social media accounts. These profiles have a searches tab or a news feed tab. Your partner takes out this document secretly from you and what happens? You see who you researched on which date and the account books are revealed. There is even a name for this: "stalking".
Everyone has packages on their telephone landlines now. Those who have a postpaid line can keep track of who they talked to and how much they talked during the month. Nowadays, phone tariffs offer campaigns such as 1000 SMS - 4 GB - 750 MIN. We see that partners in relationships now spend their days calculating the number of SMS and minutes in these packages, one by one. When they see a deficiency, they immediately sit their loved ones on the chair, a white light appears above and the questioning begins. Who did you talk! Who did you send a message to? The person feels questioned, overwhelmed, or sometimes looks at the bill statement and asks the numbers called from the same chair! The question is asked. Instead of sparks created by love in the heart, winds of boredom and boredom blow.
Tü These are actually due to lack of healthy communication and not transferring emotions to each other. We do not trust neither our love nor the one we love. What is trust? You must trust when you receive your phone password or social media password. Is this what being cautious is? In my opinion, caution begins with the person himself; in his own love, in his self-confidence. A person who is confident in himself does not need to seek security in his love.
We are a society that shouts "I'm jealous" before we can say "I love". People need to love and be loved just as much as they need to breathe. People love, but do not feel loved. After a while, he doubts his love. Let's show that we love you. Let's be a breath to the needs of both ourselves and our loved ones. Is love only understood when expressed? No. Love can be understood from the mist and liveliness in the eyes, love can be understood with every touch. These touches are like fingerprints, leaving different traces on each skin and each love. Let's touch the one we love; Let's hug. Because we know that we hug the phone whenever we are not hugging the one we love. While we are troubled by the one we love, we are struggling with his love without him.
You love, show your love,
You be loved, touch each other's hearts..
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