FEMALE SEXUALITY

What are the things that are sexually stimulating for women? Not much research was done on this subject until the 21st century. What affects men in general has been the subject of research. Nowadays, as women are taking part in working life and starting to take up senior management positions, research has begun to be conducted on women. Consumption-oriented studies have accelerated for the happiness of women and their greater sexual pleasure as they take more part in the world of consumption. Among all these, scientists have now begun to investigate what and to what extent they play a role in making women sexually sensitive. This quest is very important both on the women's side and on the men's side. Knowledge about how a woman can have more sexual pleasure will make both the woman happy and the man happy as it will enhance the relationship. Jacqualine Tarkiel says, "sex happens with love, but sex also happens outside of love and can be beautiful and fulfilling." It is not correct to say that loveless sex is specific to men only. Women, like men, will enjoy a suitable sexual relationship. This pleasure thing is a real satisfaction. Satisfaction with love is a situation that gives more pleasure and gives different effects. In this experience, love is so active and dominant that it always takes precedence over the pleasure of sex.

Another important point during adolescence is that all impulses swell during adolescence. This is the same for both girls and boys. Generally speaking, it is thought that girls do not masturbate. This is completely wrong information. In fact, the girl who masturbates sees herself as guilty and has committed a sin and gets into great distress. He becomes unhappy. Young girls should be able to easily talk about sexuality with their mother, the person closest to them. But the young girl is reluctant to talk, and since the mother does not have enough information, she immediately shuts down the subject when her daughter brings it up.

A point that should be given great importance for women is sex during menopause. Lack of or little sexual intercourse during this period negatively affects women psychologically. They feel useless and worthless. As a result, they make their spouses unhappy and negatively affect their relationships. proceed. During menopause, if problems such as decrease in estrogen hormones, irregularities in the secretion system, and vaginal dryness are not treated, sexual reluctance may occur. There is a solution to this problem. It would be appropriate for women who have entered or are about to enter menopause to consult a psychologist. First of all, they should clarify the question marks in their minds. Sometimes this information completely solves the problem. Sometimes, many couples who go to psychologists for fear of not being able to have sexual intercourse can easily have sexual intercourse during the information phase. This shows us that women are often more affected by prejudices and wrong social value judgments about sexuality. Lack of knowledge about sexuality, whether for men or women, continues with all its intensity in Turkey. Shame, ignorance, misinformation, superstitions and feelings of sin are the killers of sexuality. Even a simple and solvable event such as dryness during menopause can make many families unhappy.

In Turkey, the fact that sex is still not perceived as a beautiful, pleasant, clean and necessary event for everyone creates important problems. The most important task here falls to the media. Visual and written media should not constantly present women as a commodity, especially programs such as television, which further fuel the view of women in a society that is not already conscious. If the media can explain to society that sex should be a beautiful, necessary and enjoyable event, it can correct misinformation deficiencies and beliefs.

With the support of the media, psychologists, sociologists and theologians, the perspective on sexuality can be changed. The elimination of discrimination against women should be supported by law.

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