HAPPINESS LOVE MARRIAGE TIPS: WHAT IS HAPPINESS? HOW CAN WE BE HAPPY?
If we ask most people to define the definition of "Happiness", they would define it as "Having established a happy family and a happy home". So, what is real happiness? Is starting a family a valid formula for happiness? Come on, let's think about this together, dear friends.
If you wish, let's first start thinking about what "Love" is. If we ask a thousand people what love is, we will get a thousand different answers, because everyone will define love and happiness in their own way, based on their own experiences:
RECIPES OF LOVE AND HAPPINESS:
• Love is a magnificent thing. It is an emotion.
• Love is something that should be avoided.
• I will never fall in love again.
• Marriage kills love.
• Oh, don't get married, you'll get tired of each other, etc…. What else, all of these statements sound familiar, right?
However, many people around us are telling about their own experiences. So, what is love in real terms?
Love is the feeling that comes out of you, finds a surface to reflect on, and returns to you. In other words, at least 2 people are required, one has emotions towards the other, and these emotions are conveyed to the other person through the appropriate environment and messages. Then, the emotions we convey to the other person interact and the response reaches us through emotional messages. The feeling of LOVE is that when the message reaches us from that person, we forget that we are the person who conveyed the real first feeling message.
WHY IS HAPPINESS AND FALLING IN LOVE
Falling in love is difficult, happiness is not easy. In order to fall in love, a person must first know himself. He should be able to discover his shortcomings and face them. A person who wants to be happy must take positive steps towards making peace with our human shortcomings and finding pursuits and pastimes to complete ourselves. In other words, it is necessary to eat a lot of baked bread to be a happy person.
A person who does not truly know himself, is not aware of his personality traits, does not know his wishes and desires, and has not discovered his limits is not yet mature. A person who is emotionally and intellectually immature cannot fall in love; he confuses lust with compassion.
Past. Things were perhaps a little easier back then, families decided on the selection of spouses, and people got married through arranged marriages and started families. Even in the families of our dear friends reading this article, our parents may have gotten married through an arranged marriage and perhaps they may have shared a much happier life together than the rest of us. In other words, it will not be possible to claim that there is an advantageous difference in terms of the definition of "happiness" between getting married and establishing a family out of love and having an arranged marriage. /p>
If you ask what do you think the bottom line is, friends, first of all, let's remember that we are all human, we are all mortal, we are all incomplete. Life will always be a struggle for completion for us. Writing a book, cooking, painting, going to work, tidying up the house, putting the children to sleep, doing homework... All of them are different ways of completion that we find and choose according to our disposition to complete ourselves.
The better a person knows himself, The better he realizes his shortcomings and chooses more efficient and appropriate methods to complete them. A person who is on the journey of completion is on the path to maturity. The relationships established by people who know them will be much more sharing, complementary and happiness-oriented.
Happiness is the state that the couple perceives when they feel peaceful and complete.
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