Being cheated on is a very painful feeling, just like losing a loved one.
It can be painful. If the emotions in a relationship are deep, what I mean by these emotions is not only love, excitement, but also hatred, grudge, etc. If these are too much, this It is difficult to end the relationship because it is a language of communication in a fight, for example, have you ever been angry with your mother, father, sibling, friend, etc.? (you got angry or even argued) but later on, this will pass if you continue your life, but this feeling of being cheated on is not a feeling that can be easily overcome because there is an underlying reason. There are many thoughts;
He found someone more beautiful than me!
He chose her over me?
He doesn't love me!
He humiliated me!
How long has the relationship been going on?
Who knows what that woman/man thought about me, maybe they took pity on me and thought I was pathetic, or even made fun of me... we can increase these, of course.
If you are being cheated on, we are probably in a long-term relationship because we generally do not see cheating in short-term relationships.
The deeper the value a person gives to the other party in a relationship, the deeper and more painful the pain the person feels when that relationship ends is as deep and painful as the value he gives. Because you are making an investment in the other party, a material and spiritual investment. When the relationship ends, people are literally devastated and it is naturally difficult for them to recover.
I was deceived, then I will turn around and go my own way. Not everyone can say this easily because our logic and our hearts. They do not say the same thing, it is as if they are an enemy duo, our emotions are not always logical and realistic, sometimes human beings try to get the emotion they want to see and feel. Remember that if you have been cheated on, it is not the end of the world, neither your mother/father, brother, or spouse own you, you own yourself.
If you cannot cope with these feelings, you should definitely get support from an expert.
See you in my next article, my dear readers, take care of yourselves.
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