There was a general state of loss. I didn't know myself, I didn't know what I wanted. I was being thrown from place to place by events. I had no connection with my body, my soul, my mind. I couldn't feel anything, I couldn't find any existential meaning. I was so confused and couldn't find my own way. I was searching but I was at a dead end. I was looking for myself everywhere, in everything, in everyone. 'Who was I? What was my path? 'Was there such a thing as a road?' Well, I didn't even know that. I tried so many things; I was just saying 'this suits me', it seemed to sink in and then I was shaken again. 'No, that wasn't it either.' On the one hand, it was difficult for me to go through the process of finding identity at this age, which I should have solved during adolescence.
Adolescents' identity crises (the process of forming their ideas about who they are) are likened to a person trying to find clothes that fit him in the store. I was going through the same process. But I had to accept; This lateness was our generation's misfortune.
I was neither aware of my belief pattern that caused this loss and confusion; nor why these beliefs are so important.
And at the end of all this, when the time came, the essence I got was this; Thoughts are mental objects. You create a life based on what you choose to believe. However, if you get caught up in events and allow them and your environment to determine your thoughts, you will lose control of your life. You can choose your thoughts and what and how you think. If you stay away from the thoughts that harm you and stay close to the thoughts that will lead you to success and happiness, your life will be shaped positively and suitable for you.
In this sense, without you knowing it until now, unconsciously. You must recognize the thought patterns you have created and replace them with ones of your own choices. Thus, he takes control of his life; You will not be blown away by events and people.
My suggestion; Review your thought patterns regarding relationships, family, work life, yourself, etc. Those who will give you an advantage in life, let them stay; replace the others with new ones and watch what happens..!
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