There are many things that remain in the background during the marriage process but become vital after the process. During the process, the bride and groom rush around to present everything perfectly, dreaming of a magnificent wedding. From the wedding dress to the groom's suit, from the flowers to the hall, from the shin to the shin... They think that the perfect wedding will open the doors to a perfect marriage after paying a lot of money.
Let's see if the facts are like that;
I'm not sure that many things are conveyed correctly to young individuals entering the marriage process. Hearsay, incomplete, inflated or distorted information places dynamite at the root of marriage and relationships. It is necessary to carefully examine each piece of information and question whether it is valid for every relationship. It is very important for every couple who enters the marriage process to be aware of the process they are entering into before they drown in financial details that do not benefit the relationship. Even correcting false beliefs and myths will change the way many people approach relationships. First of all, we need to know that no two relationships are alike. The relationship has a structure and texture that is somewhat separate and autonomous from the people who establish it. This tissue is unlike any other tissue, just as one human being is not like another human being. Therefore, formulas valid in one relationship may bring about the end of another relationship. It is essential for every couple to know themselves, their partner and their relationship and find formulas accordingly. If we talk about the cliché but also true saying 'love is labor', one of the false beliefs that couples who are new to marriage should get rid of is that marriage is just blended with happiness. So there is no happiness that comes as a package with marriage. Partners need to build happiness by working together and spending time. Another myth is that love is something that never ends. Love goes quietly and slowly when there is no one striving for it. In order for love to exist permanently in the relationship, it is necessary to convince it, make an effort and make effort. In the process leading up to the marriage, both parties think that they will fall into a magical world after signing, but this world is nothing but real life. In this real life, there are sorrows, arguments, disagreements, joys and happiness. In short, it is present in everything and it is normal to have it. It is useful to remind once again that couples who cannot adapt to this world that they enter with great expectations in the first years will build their relationship step by step with patience, effort and time. The magic of this world lies in the healing, restorative and transformative side of the relationship that strengthens over time. Like stones that take unique shapes over the centuries by rubbing against each other on a shore and chipping their sharp edges, couples also take shape, mature and transform over time. As long as there is love, labor and effort...
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