The inability to have sexual intercourse is generally seen in couples in the first years of marriage.
The person immediately attacks himself and asks himself the question "Why can't I have sexual intercourse?" over and over again. It wears out. But there's one thing you need to know: It's not just you who experience this problem; even the people around you and even those closest to you experience it. Not being able to have sexual intercourse is a consequence. If we seek to change the outcome, our solutions will not be successful. Our aim is to find the reasons that cause the problem and to produce solutions for the cause. When we work in this way, we manage to eliminate the problem and prevent it from occurring again.
If the inability to have sexual intercourse, also known as Vaginismus in women, is a result, what could be the reason? The most basic reason is misinformation. Therefore, when we are misinformed about sexual life by the society, it is impossible for us to live a healthy sexual life with those mistakes.
What are these known misconceptions about sexual life?
Vaginismus is caused by beliefs, negative experiences, behaviors, some rumors, etc., or by the person's fears about his/her previous life, harassment, rape, etc. (CIG) It is among the reasons.
Being unable to have sexual intercourse is not a situation specific to women only. There are also common cases of inability to have sexual intercourse in men. When we examine men, premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction are observed. On the basis of these; The fear of not performing adequately, the inculcation of sexuality by society as a sign of power, and the success of depriving girls of their virginity on the first night are imposed. These and similar pressures make men's sexual life difficult. The man's penis cannot achieve erection for sexual intercourse, or even when it does, the erection disappears in a short time when it comes into contact with the vagina. Another situation is ejaculation immediately after sexual intercourse begins, before the penis enters the vagina.
These and similar problems are faced by almost every couple today. These problems one by one I will discuss it in more detail in my future articles. It is very difficult to solve these problems yourself. Never fear that these problems cannot be solved and that you will not succeed. Instead of struggling with your problems, do not hesitate to get support from an expert to live a healthy sexual life.
Remember that one of the main veins that nourish marriage is sexual life.
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