While reading, you may think to yourself, "What a happy family," but...
The woman calls out to her husband:
“My dear, wake up, "Breakfast is ready," he says.
The man wakes up and washes his hands and face. He puts on his well-ironed shirt and clean trousers and enters the kitchen.
The daughter says "Good morning, daddy" and hugs her father. The warm breads and the prepared breakfast table smell delicious. The man eats his breakfast with appetite. "Honey, thank you, I can't thank you enough for this wonderful breakfast," his wife says to him, "Bon appetit my husband." Then he sends his wife off happily.
If you thought "What a happy family" while reading, you didn't see the problem in the story. "Oh, what's wrong with this story?" Please read the following story more carefully.
The woman and her husband wake up with the ringing clock. After washing their hands and faces, they go to their children's room and wake up their daughters with their usual morning song. While the father helps his daughter get ready, the mother starts preparing breakfast.
The daughter and her father get ready and come to the kitchen. While the mother pours the tea, the father and daughter prepare the table.
The most delicious part of the breakfast is that everyone takes turns explaining what they will do that day.
Well, now let's think about what is the difference between the first story and the second story. ? Although most people see a happy picture in the first story, what is missing is sharing. In the second story, there is immediate togetherness and sharing.
The child in the first story is a spectator to what is happening, but in the second story, the child lives and shares every aspect of life as a family. A child who lives like this experiences and feels this feeling in every activity he does with his mother and father, in almost every game.
He easily perceives the themes of sharing and friendship in the games and cartoons he watches and feels the emotions. It automatically reflects the feeling and behavior of sharing in games, activities or communication with friends.
The most effective way to explain or teach sharing and friendship to a child is to experience it as a family, as in the second story.
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