Relationships need to be normalized in order to have a healthy, happy and strong marriage. There is no need for a marriage to be perfect to be able to say positive things about a relationship.
There are arguments, differing opinions and conflict in every relationship. In fact, a marriage without these is not healthy. The important thing is to realize that these are normal and to be able to manage the processes. Isn't it very painful to think as if there has never been a good moment?
That's why the best thing we have to do, friends, is to focus on the good and the beautiful under all conditions and conditions. When you are having problems, I seem to hear you say how this will be, focusing only on the problem you are experiencing, not making additions, keeping the good and beautiful alive will allow you to find the middle way in a soft way. As long as you hold on to your anger, negativities and the past during the discussion, you will be blind to the feelings of the other person and prevent you from being understood. You have to think about whether you want to solve it or to fuel it. Remember, the problem isn't your spouse, it's what you've been through. When you look at which one you have decided and headed, you should analyze the result with less damage. It's easy to finish, it takes effort to continue. No marriage stays as it is. When you tell those around you, it doesn't matter if you are from your root family or your friends, they cannot listen to you impartially and act on their own feelings. Such situations may further fuel the conflict instead of reaching a solution.
The 3rd person who should be with you in solving every problem you experience without waiting for it to come to the end point and wondering if it will pass over time should be an expert.
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