When we look at emotional neglect, we can say that it is like starving the child emotionally
. A parent cannot show their love to their child by hugging, that is, with body language. When his child does not behave as he
wants, when he does something for himself, he may get offended and withdraw
all his investment from him. The child is also reluctant to attempt
to express his own ideas, so that my mother will love me as long as he/she loves me. He is almost attuned to his mother, because losing the love of the mother
is like death for him. The child feels abandoned and very lonely, becomes depressed. Even if a parent
is depressed, has a physical illness, or attaches too much importance to their career and career, they may not be able to adequately satisfy their child emotionally. When he has to move to the city
or has to leave home for any reason,
experiences an intense depression of abandonment and cannot adapt to his school and friends. It's as if
he subconsciously feels guilty towards the mother for performing a self-activation alone without the
mother. Or the neglected child may become the Borderline adult of the future. The person with this
personality pattern always behaves as the other side wants, so that the people they love don't leave him
, they give up on themselves. They want
to have a male or female partner in their life. When they don't have a partner, they feel empty and lonely. In order to get rid of this feeling of emptiness
, he can smoke excessively, drink alcohol, eat excessively, have random sex
, watch movies for hours away from the world, drive very fast, browse social media for hours
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Sometimes people cannot remember their childhood traumas. These negative memories remain implicit in our
memory. If you can't regulate your emotions, you may have implicit traumas if you
collapse immediately when faced with a negative situation, if you can't vent your anger in a healthy way, if you can't say no, if you can't cry and stay alone.
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