In addition to the cultural differences, communication problems, and psychiatric conditions classically defined in marriage, the rapid institutional change in marriages makes marriages increasingly difficult.
The roles of men and women, gender roles, individualization, women's economic The legal strengthening of marriage and the fact that divorce is becoming more common every day cause marriage to change rapidly. While a woman has the collective consciousness that "the female bird makes the nest", she also has to go to work. On the one hand, the man who will claim her is in his collective consciousness, on the other hand, he is in a race for power and equality with his wife. While the man is collectively aware that "the man is the head of the house", he can remain insensitive to his wife, who works harder than him, or looks for ways to influence his wife.
Unfortunately, in the face of this change, the point we use or cling to as a reference is the role models we watched in the first 6 years of age and those It is the marriage model of the period. We begin to use the perspectives, beliefs, and experiences we brought from these ages, especially under stress, and unfortunately, when we look at the results, we see constant fights, resentment, disappointments, or marriages or divorces that last for the sake of the child.
What is done in marriage therapy?
Marriage therapy is a form of therapy that helps couples work to "improve or save their marriage" in a safe environment, accompanied by an expert.
Couples' communication errors and perspective differences are identified. .
It is shown how personality structures and cultural differences are reflected in communication and perspective.
The roles of men and women, unconscious processes, and those thrown into the marriage pool from old families are determined.
Couples sub-groups. Awareness is raised about brain-collective consciousness and its effects on marriage.
Information and awareness about marriage and its natural difficulties (shared responsibility, monotony, etc.) are created.
Ability to provide "simultaneous" personal development of couples. (Problems may increase when one develops more than the other.) skills are increased and they are taught to be open to the culture of compromise.
Support is given for individual problems and personal development.
Boundary training; In our country there are many It seems like an important and necessary training. Boundary awareness between spouses, children and other relatives is one of the topics we work on most frequently.
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