Isn't the underlying factor behind all problems, whether adult or child, a lack of love? Either we cannot get enough love from the people around us, or we build walls against love for ourselves. However, if we try to surrender ourselves to the other person without inhibiting them. Does the fact that you have experienced many negative things in your life mean that you close yourself off from experiencing the beauties to come? Have you ever asked yourself this question: Why don't you let him love you? Always leave one side of your heart empty for the beauty to come. Just one loving look can change a person's life. says Osho. A person cannot escape from himself. Believe in the healing power of love. Love is Healing. Love is Power. Love is the Magic of Change. Says Mevlana.
According to scientific data, when you fall in love, you become a more productive person. When you fall in love, you start making plans for the future and establish a bond and intimacy with the other party. Your brain carries this structure into your daily life. Your long-term plans for your work and daily life increase, and you become a person more focused on solving problems by paying more attention to details. The fear of falling in love also has a name: Philophobia! The disappointments you experience repeatedly may have opened the doors to philophobia, an anxiety disorder. Be careful if, when you feel like you are going to fall in love again, you experience great anxiety, a feeling of pain, and a desire to run away. 'First we are afraid, and then we unconsciously invite whatever we fear most into our lives. "Fear itself creates the thing to be feared and secretly plans for us to encounter it." These sentences belong to Stefano D'Anna. "Don't chase your dreams away, because when they're gone, maybe you'll stay, but that means you're no longer alive," says Mark Twain. So, let fears give way to love. John Gottman, a relationship expert who is considered one of the best in his field, says in one of his books, "What needs to be done in order to maintain a healthy and happy relationship." Gottman is quite right when he underlines that what makes a relationship last is to surrender to the flow of the relationship and pure love, isn't it? Besides, a psychologist from the University of Washington The i professor emphasizes that relationships will continue in harmony as long as the respect, interest and sharing of common values between couples are not interrupted.
As Erich Fromm said, love is, first of all, an act of faith. Finding love means finding yourself.
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