You are living a daily life on your own terms and there are no problems. Work, social, love and family are as they should be for you. You progress towards self-realization with the goals you set. When viewed from the outside, your self-confidence is felt. In fact, everything is under control and being able to control yourself is the key. Your peace of mind is reflected in your social relationships. Even if you work all the time, your mind is at ease. You take care of the necessary things that you want, you are so in control of your life that you are in control and you think it will always go this way.
While everything in your life is going as desired, you suddenly feel that you get different reactions. .Meaningless problems begin in business life, you start to be held responsible for situations in which you were not involved, their tone of voice becomes harsher and their expressions become as if they do not care. Your feelings tell you that something negative is happening. But first of all, this is just a feeling, it is meaningless to talk about because there is no problem for you, it is as usual. What is the problem when you act as if you were talking as usual? You can't just leave it where it is, it will be difficult for you because you were always in control and something out of control is happening.
There are events around me that I can't understand. What is going on? Situations that we say occur in our lives when we are unprepared. Suddenly we are stunned, it is not clear who is suffering from what. I am just doing my job, why is he yelling at me now?, I don't know him at all, what is it that he can't take or give?, I never did anything, but why am I guilty? etc... sentences are uttered at these moments.
I neither have a medical condition nor a chronic psychological problem, but lately I have been experiencing symptoms such as neck pain, burning in the stomach, and tremors, and I cannot find the reason. These are moments.
Alarms go off and suddenly what happens seems ridiculous. I mean, how did you suddenly become the core of a place you were not in? There is an instinctive need for defense, but you don't know what it will be against and for what. There is no template.
The need to explain it to someone increases. The reason that causes this is the question 'I wonder if there is something I'm wrong about?' It is constantly reviewed at all times. and answers are sought to get out of the unwanted circle.
The incident is told to more than one person and;
A: For God's sake, tell me what else should I do, am I at fault?
B: No, you did what was necessary..< br /> A: Well, why did this happen? I haven't done anything to anyone, on the contrary, I don't even sit around..
B: Well, you don't need to do anything to someone, he is obviously jealous.
(being jealous: It's very strange for A. (He comes because he doesn't even have a voice)
A: Well, this situation prevents me from my work and I cannot do it. My nerves are tense.
B: These will happen throughout your life, you are just at the beginning.
A: But why is there a need? Well, I don't interfere with anyone..
B: You are wrong, you are making the biggest mistake, you are living dreams that people cannot reach.
Yes, sometimes you don't have to do anything to be blamed, the moment people start to act with their instincts. They combine their appreciation for you with their anger towards themselves and take action. You only try to control your own life with your own behavior, you cannot control others. The moment you try to control, you will be disappointed. In fact, the words spoken to you are their shortcomings that they cannot admit to themselves, and they are so important to them. It can suddenly become the core of their lives.
Actually, how lucky is this core!!!
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