Be aware that if you act with the thought "I am indispensable", you will be one of the losers. Because arrogance/pride/egoism/selfishness peaks, openly or secretly, in people who believe that they are "indispensable". People with these characteristics lose the existing beauties by making evaluations far from reality.
Even the child, who is the most indispensable for a mother, can be given up when the time comes, and the mother may complain in tears about the existence of her cruel child, she may be disowned. He may refuse.
The man who says, "He is nothing without me, he cannot do with anyone else, he needs me" is abandoned by his wife, and after it is too late and the family is broken up, he is left alone and goes crazy. A woman who thinks that she is indispensable does not show the necessary closeness to her husband and experiences great devastation when she is cheated on by her husband (in daily practice, it is common for couples who experience negativities such as being cheated on/abandoned/turned into police custody after years of married life to exhibit behavior thinking that they are "indispensable").
Both the employer whose perspective on his worker is "nobody would give him bread except me" and the worker who says "he became rich thanks to me, he wouldn't have been able to do anything without me" are both struggling in the same swamp: "indispensable". . The employer is neither indispensable for the worker, nor is that worker the only worker for the employer. They only provide sustenance for each other, they shake spoons in the same bowl, otherwise they do not need each other.
The doctor who thinks "He needs me" does not pay the necessary attention to his patient, the teacher If they do not protect their students, they will ultimately be the losers. They give up on their patient doctor, whom they have been following for years, and their respectful student and parent give up on their teacher.
No one is indispensable!
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