Which of the things you have will still be important to you 100 years from now, when we most likely die? The amount of money in your bank account or your real estate, your clothes, your pleasures, your sorrows...And your children. Yes, the only ones you left behind will still be caring about our children. We care about their health, happiness and success, as if they represent us. They are both our connection to the world and our work. It's literally the sweetest sound we left behind when we left here. That's why we should be able to give real value to our children.
I wonder why people want to have children? Why do some people with any health problem make extraordinary efforts and want to experience the feeling of motherhood or fatherhood? The answer "They will take care of us years later when we get old" is not at all sufficient and convincing. There must be a much greater impulse that pushes us to become mothers or fathers. This is probably a genetic pressure. So, from this perspective, adults actually need their children. But how does it happen that, as their children grow up, some adults can become harsher towards their children who gave them this chance? However, weren't their families rejoiced thanks to that baby? Didn't the grandmothers, grandfathers and neighbors embrace this baby who was born together? As the baby grows, the parents also grow and mature. We have always heard and seen parents who gave their property, property and even their lives for their children. However, the mother has a different place compared to the father. Because she is the one who gave birth to the baby. They are the ones who create that miraculous milk in their sacred bodies and nourish their babies. As for fathers... According to research, the intelligence levels of children with whom fathers have loving contact are higher. In other words, parents are like a bird with two wings. For a happy and successful future, both wings must perform their duties adequately. If the mother or father carries more burden than necessary and takes responsibility, it will undoubtedly have negative consequences for the child, as the other will not be able to perform their duties adequately.
Perhaps the easiest way to understand whether a woman is really a mother, whether she has a child or not, is to It is to see whether someone else can take care of their child. maternal urge, ka It is a very strong source of motivation in religions.
BIRTH OR RAISING?
In ancient times, there was an uprising in the Caucasus and the king was killed. The Queen barely escapes and saves her life. However, the queen, who was too busy packing her suitcases, forgot her baby son in one of the rooms of the palace. Meanwhile, one of the maids, rather than leaving the baby there to die, risks her own life and takes the child and kidnaps him from the palace.
The maid raises the baby even though she lives a poor life for years. About ten years later, the government changes again and amnesty is granted to the supporters of the old government. Taking this as an opportunity, the former queen returns to her country. And he finds his servant and asks for his son, in fact the new crown prince of the country. His servant no longer gives him away because he sees him as his own child. They end up in court.
While the case is being discussed, the judge finds both women right. Because one of them ensured the birth of the child and the other ensured its care. In other words, both parties have rights over the child.
Finally, the judge decides to play a little game to reveal the real mother of the heir. The court draws a circle with a diameter of one meter in the middle of the hall and places the child in the middle. It allows both mothers to hold one arm of the child. The game is very simple. With the command "Start", mothers will try to pull the child from their arms towards their side.
Women pull the child with force to win; However, the former queen manages to attract the child to her side. The servant asks for another chance; but he loses again. The old queen is very happy to win the game. The maid calls out to the judge:
-But my child is hurting. That's why I leave it.
The judge has already played this game consciously. That's why he gives the child back to the maid, that is, to his real mother.
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