Being adaptable in interpersonal relationships is a very functional and beautiful skill that protects and enhances our sociability. But sometimes, even if we don't realize it, we can act too harmoniously and this behavior can harm us and those around us. Think of the five relationships you care about the most and put a tick next to the ones that are closest to you.
1- Even if I don't like it, I tolerate it and agree.
2- I push people to do the right thing, even if there is disappointment in the end.
/> 3-I try to be polite and agreeable no matter what the other person does or says.
4-I give advice to people I think deserve it.
5-Even if I sacrifice my own needs in the end, I show sensitivity to the needs of those around me.
br /> 6-I know what I want and I insist on it, even if I get angry in the end.
7-I see that there will be a conflict, I retreat, I take care to give priority to the other party's wishes.
8-When people do not do the right thing, they turn to their superiors. I go away
9-I withdraw rather than being hurtful
10-I do not allow people to be selfish, I show them what to do.
11-I do not try to change people, I leave them alone.
Mainly If you have marked odd numbers, it means that you are passive in relationships; if you have marked even numbers, it means that you have an aggressive problem-solving style. Remaining passive in relationships will reduce a person's self-confidence over time, and over time, you will begin to have problems in relationships. Your remaining passive will affect the other party's behavior in an unhealthy way. For example, unless you express what you want, the other party will lose the chance to understand what you feel and what you want.
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