The Scream of the Silent Body: Pedophilia

I can't help but wonder if Freud predicted that events would come to this extent when he said a long time ago that the sexuality of civilized people had been severely damaged...

In our past two articles, we had articles about children's privacy education and sexuality education. Maybe there are so many articles, news, research, etc. on this subject every day. Although we apply these to protect our children now, unfortunately, these abuses cannot be prevented because the people who committed these abuses were not so conscious at the time, and tiny bodies are exposed to very big events.

Known as pedophilia, sexual desire and desire for children. People are not aware of their situation, and as we often see, it is noticed as a criminal case after it is too late and one or more of our little innocent children have become victims. The reason for this is that this problem is compatible with the individual's personality structure and he is not actually aware of this situation.

The definition of pedophilia is according to DSM-IV, for a period of more than 6 months, the person has intense sexual intercourse with children who have not entered puberty. It is defined as the development of impulses.

In order to be diagnosed, the person is expected to be at least 16 years old. Again, he must be at least five years older than the children he will sexually abuse.

    So why does this pedophilia happen? Is it a crime or a disease? This situation is absolutely unacceptable. However, it seems that people with pedophilia are a complex condition such as some developmental disorders in the brain, exposure to sexual abuse or other traumas in childhood, and a personality disorder. From the perspective of trauma, they want to reverse the event that the person was previously a victim of, this time they want to relive the event as a master and heal themselves. On the other hand, a weak father figure and a dominant, frightening mother figure can also be a factor. It can be directed at adolescent children who cannot get enough strength from their fathers and who are afraid of adult women because of their frightening mothers.

    Shall we execute or heal? To answer this question, "People think, 'Why should we help pedophiles?' Should be followed, thrown in jail "They should even be castrated, but if we help pedophiles, maybe we can save the abused children."
These words belong to Paul Jones, whose daughter was kidnapped by a pedophile man. “How can we help pedophilia? Is it possible to cure it?” If we ask: Although some sources state that pedophilia cannot be treated or that it is very difficult; According to recent research, there is also the opinion that it can be treated with good pharmacotherapy (drug therapy) and therapy. Prevention efforts need to be increased along with the treatment of these people.

     Families should be more careful about children's privacy and sexuality education. Let our children neither be victims of prodophilia nor pedophilia…..

 

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