There is a new definition called marriage fatigue. The expression is new, but the concept it represents is the "non-violent" version of violent conflict that dates back to ancient times; Not violently, but gently, a situation of not being able to get along, a kind of spiritual divorce.
Spouses share the same house with each other, but they give up sharing life, cut off communication, do not chat, and do not make an effort to solve their problems; They become alienated from each other both emotionally, spiritually and physically.
Multi-room houses, different televisions and computers, and smartphones separate spouses from each other and isolate them. If spouses spend most of their time in separate rooms, do not share the same table, and have lost relationships with relatives and mutual friends, alarm bells are ringing for marriage fatigue.
If you feel that your marriage is tired, you need to take action immediately and try to revive the communication between you. If you don't know where to start, it would be beneficial to get help from an expert. Because this fatigue progresses in an extremely insidious way, gradually alienating the spouses from each other and the relationship and bringing them to the point of breaking up.
Spouses share the same house with each other, but they have given up on sharing life, communication has ceased, they do not chat. They have stopped even having an argument to solve their problems such as… This is how we call the marriage of couples who are physically, mentally and emotionally distant from each other and estranged from each other, tired marriage.
Ursula Le Guin says “Love is not something that just sits there like a stone; "Like bread, it is necessary to make a new one every time."
Loving and falling in love may be a good start for marriage, but unfortunately it is not enough to make the marriage work. Marriage; It is nourished, developed and lived with love, respect and most importantly, effort. Relationships without effort are doomed to end. Research shows us that in happy marriages, what sustains the relationship is not love, passion or harmony, but people's determination to maintain the relationship. In other words, long and happy marriages are for those who are willing to get along.
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