Report card day is the day when the performance evaluation of children throughout the semester or throughout the year is received in the form of a document. While this day was more important in the past when the e-school system was not in use, it is still of great importance today.
What happens on report card day? While some of the children go to school with the excitement of the certificate they will receive, some go to school with the fear of their family's reaction when they return home. Some people cry tears of joy because this child of ours cries when he gets 95 but not 100. Some people cry thinking about the punishments they will receive at home, the shouting noises, and whose certificate of appreciation they will be compared with this time. Moreover, some of our children make "after this..." sentences about the future.
In fact, parents get the highest marks on report card day with their attitudes.
I guess that you have a different communication bond between you and your children, that they will understand you and that you do not want to upset them. What I am interested in here is the children's feelings and internal reasoning in line with your attitudes.
>What can be done?
•When your child comes home on report card day, do not start by saying "come on, bring your report card" with raised eyebrows and curious eyes. First, ask how he is doing and how his day was. Let the child feel that you care about him, not the report card.
•When you see the report card, your priority should be to see the good grades and talk about the good grades. If you see weak or low grades on the report card and immediately react to them, the child may also defend himself.
•You should have already followed the fact that you have low grades in the e-school system. This situation shouldn't actually be a surprise to you.
•Before you start giving advice about low grades, ask your child what he thinks about these grades. His own thoughts will remain in his mind more than what you say, and he will then look at his work accordingly.
•Finally, state whether you agree or disagree or express your own thoughts by thinking only of your own child and valuing him and your family, without making comparisons by saying "neighbor's daughter, uncle's son". .
I wish our children and you success and happy holidays!
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