Parents prepare special rooms to offer their children the best environments and contribute to their development, saying "This is your room, you can study more comfortably." they say. Next thing you know, your parents are watching their favorite TV series in the living room; The child should be able to study despite the noise of the television. Do parents think that being alone in the room is enough for good motivation? Or why wouldn't a child want to study in general?
Yes, children have their own rooms, but they are in a significant gap and are left alone. Therefore, it becomes very difficult for them to be motivated for their lessons. What can affect children's worlds so much that they cannot devote themselves to a lesson? Of course, love and affection... This gap of love and affection, which is also expressed as a major cause of distraction, is not taken into consideration sufficiently by many parents, and parents say, "We already provide all kinds of support, we invest a lot in their schools; "They should also study hard." We see what they say. However, parents should not forget this: Be with them instead of leaving them on their own. Your presence will give children energy and strength. Feeling you can provide children with the love and affection they need. Therefore, it increases focus power and can reduce stress. For example, a mother reading her own book next to her child instead of reading it in the living room can contribute to good success...
The basis of success and initiative is the feeling of "I can do it"; that is, self-confidence... We begin to gain this in childhood through the attitudes of our parents. You can achieve the message "you can do it" to a child by simply offering your love and affection. By spending pleasant times together, respecting the child's feelings and thoughts and caring about their world... Instead of constantly bringing up the phrase "come on, study", by saying "I wonder which psychological need I should meet now"... Afterwards, you can see how eager they are to study. You will be able to notice!
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