There are so many people who dedicate their lives only to the happiness of the people around them. Either you are one of them or there is definitely an individual close to you who lives a dedicated life.
Let's not get into trouble, let's not lose our taste. approaches cause the person to consume his own self. He marries his parents, treats his wife like this, they have children in the same way, his friends, relatives and friends always come before him in his life. Maybe he started with a responsibility that the family he was brought up in, and his duty was known to make everyone happy. They see everything they do as their duty, not a sacrifice. And when that devoted life starts to run out and needs change, the moment he says his own happiness first, he starts to react. Because everything he has done so far to everyone around him knows his duty.
The thought that he is happy with the happiness of others, not his duty, starts to react with the change he has entered when he confronts him with his reality and intolerance after a while. When he realizes that he has to find happiness in himself and to make himself happy, the painful process he went through is not enough, and he starts to get reactions from his surroundings.
Here is the breaking point of your life. The moment he realizes that his own happiness is more important than others, and that he makes those around him truly happy as long as he is happy is the moment when change begins. This moment is viewed negatively by others. Because the person who thinks about the people around him has started to say no and has learned to say my happiness first. Don't let your reactions or behaviors turn you away from the decision you have made. If you really enter a process of change for yourself, focus on how you feel, not what others think, and enjoy the change you have experienced. 'Cause what we say, what we do For sure we can never make others happy.
with love
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