The Persian word 'love' comes from the Persian word 'Asheka'. Asheka means 'ivy'. The ivy shares all the food, water and life of the tree it surrounds.
After a while, the tree dies when it has difficulty feeding both itself and the ivy. This feeling is called love because the ivy absorbs the water of the tree it surrounds, withers it, weakens it and sometimes dries it up, and because excessive love cuts off the lover's interest with someone other than the one he loves, turns him yellow and withered.
Love or close relationship; Sometimes it is used to indicate a personal relationship and sometimes to indicate a certain feeling that one person has for another. The subject of love has been one of the themes of literature and science. Sometimes it appeared as a folk song, sometimes a novel, sometimes a research, sometimes a movie… Love; It has followed the feelings of trust, closeness, belonging, attachment, love, respect and excitement. sublime.
Evolutionary psychology, on the other hand, says; love is all about choosing good genes to ensure the continuity of the species.
From an Islamic point of view; First, the Sufis define love as a result and necessity of the unity of existence, saying that love is born from God and that the main reason for every particle of existence is love.
Second, theologians are extremely rational and realistic
Thirdly, it is an indispensable element that regulates the entire hierarchy of existence by accepting love as a philosophical basis and accepting love as a philosophical basis.
In Buddhism, the pure feeling that you give to another creature in an unselfish way is called love.
According to Socrates, Love is nothing but searching for a missing piece.
So love is Adam and Eve' It is the theme that has been the subject from the beginning to the present day.
Love starts in the brain and makes its place in the heart.
What we feed, defend, feel sexual impulses, act It starts in the region where we program our meat, where we have anxiety. The feeling of love, which starts in a very simple region, continues as a result of the effective use of the prefrontal cortex. The region that makes humans more special than other creatures is the prefrontal cortex. The tasks of the preforantal cortex are to be experts in executive functions such as reaction control, sound decision making, reasoning, reasoning and performing complex movements, and reviewing alternatives. This brain region also controls your level of discipline and helps you master something with repetitive exercises. In other words, the fact that you can maintain love shows how functional you are.
A research on love.
In a research conducted; They took the blood of 20 people at normal level and checked the serotonin level and the serotonin level came out at normal level.
They took blood samples from 20 people with an obsessive personality pattern, and according to the result, it was observed that the serotonin level was at a low level.
Soaked. They took blood samples from 20 people who were in love period. According to the result, it was understood that the serotonin level was lower than the people with the obsessive personality pattern. In this context, we see how deep an obsession love creates. After 18 months, when blood samples were taken again from individuals who had fallen in love, it was observed that the serotonin ratio increased. At the same time, 6 people participated in the research. This means that the chemical life of love is like 18 months. Isn't it painful?
According to the researches, after the love is over, testosterone hormone; While masculine features, increased risk taking, and increased extroversion decrease in men, this makes it easier for men to approach women. However, the feature that makes the research interesting is that after the end of love, the same hormone increases in women, making it easier for them to get closer to the opposite sex.
The theme of love, which is on the agenda of many poets, writers, and scientists, is again shaped according to human beings. Man is a unique being. Every emotion has a speed, including love. Love certainly comes and goes. When asked what is love, Mevlana says, be me and see. Regarding separation and longing, he says: chest eye eye Let the separation pierce, You hear from me that day, what is the longing.
So love is unique. It is also useful to know that love is a unique feeling by saying come and see for me.
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