Hey spouses, are you two people in your bed, which is your most private area? Or are there mothers/fathers, siblings, colleagues, etc. in your bed, and that's why you cannot fit into your double bed?
In married life, there should be privacy in the relationship between spouses, everything that two people know. Second parties (mother/father, sibling, etc.) should not know. Both spouses must respect the privacy/confidentiality/secrets of the nuclear family.
If one of the spouses does not want to talk to himself/herself or contacts his/her pre-marriage family members/friends… on the secret/red phone line. If he/she uses it and every private issue is talked about by other people, there are serious problems in his/her married life. The first problem that arises may be a crisis of mutual trust, and then the communication between spouses may deteriorate, and everyone involved in the bedroom (the privacy of the nuclear family) may start to make noise.
In conclusion, the word that needs to be said is The words of my late aunt, who gave us advice when we went to kiss hands after the wedding ceremony as is customary, have been in my ears for years: "Let two people go to bed."
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