There is definitely bad luck on me.
They put an evil eye on me.
Is there anyone in this world who is as unlucky as me?
I can list many more complaints. I have always wondered why troubles overlap.
My question is: Why do troubles overlap? comes to the top?
Let me explain it under three headings: Those that are related to the person himself, those that are independent of the person, general
1.Things that are related to the person himself
Now, what is called self-image. One thing is, self-image means how a person sees himself. For example: handsome, smart, weak, clumsy, etc. Of course, these are not fixed, for example, you think you are a smart person, but you made a serious mistake, from now on, you may describe yourself as stupid. Our thoughts about ourselves are important because they affect our future very, very much. For example, let Ahmet see himself as a hardworking and successful person. Suppose his workplace was closed and the first two workplaces he went to did not accept him. Ahmet will naturally feel useless now. Just imagine his third workplace interview. Would a boss hire someone who sees himself as useless and certain to be rejected? If you were the boss, would you buy it? Then stories of unemployment processes that last for years begin. Ahmet, who begins to see himself as useless, will believe that his wife no longer values him and will feel internally resentful towards his wife. While this feeling of worthlessness prevails, he will misunderstand the jokes made by his friends and move away from them. In summary, Ahmet's job went first, then his wife, and finally his friends. (Everything came together, didn't it?)
2.Independent of the Person
Now let's take Ayşe, a beautiful girl, as our example. Ayşe had gained some weight recently. I think the first reaction of her aunt, who hasn't seen her for a long time, is like this:
- Girl, what is this, you are a young girl, this weight does not suit her. When the warnings of her mother and a few friends are added to this, it is almost certain that Ayşe will see herself as a fat person who needs to lose weight. Since Ayşe will now perceive herself as a fat person who needs to lose weight next to her boyfriend, she will be nervous, fight with her boyfriend, and consider this situation as proof that she is no longer liked. Lesson � He will think about these things while studying and his grades will drop because he will not be able to concentrate on the lesson. In summary, first her beautiful faith was gone, she had a fight with her boyfriend, classes became a problem.
3.General ones Mr. Met sees himself as an enterprising businessman. . The country is in economic crisis and many of Mehmet's friends have gone bankrupt. This situation frightened Mr. Mehmet very much. Mr. Mehmet decided to reduce investments and the number of workers as a precaution. Now we have a boss who is afraid of bankruptcy, does not invest, and fires workers. What do you think will happen to Mehmet Bey? I think what we have here is a Mr. Mehmet who tells about the sad years of bankruptcy and the difficulties of life. In the period following the bankruptcy, Mr. Mehmet will begin to see himself as passive. He will start to think that his wife is putting too much pressure on him and that people want to use him. In summary, first the company left, then he divorced his wife, and finally he became someone who doesn't trust anyone anymore.
SOLUTION yin We are all human, sometimes we are affected by our friends, sometimes by our own inner world, and sometimes by what is happening in the country, and this is quite natural. The important thing is not to turn these negativities into identity and say this is who I am anymore. For this, you need to keep your morale high. Fi Watch movies, read books, pray, take a vacation, talk about your troubles, in short, do things that make you happy. Unfortunately, my positive self-image is damaged, what should I do to fix it?
Nothing! Yes yes nothing. Give yourself time. The nice thing about positive self-images is that they are very durable. They only need one thing: breathing/time. Are you constantly making losses? Rent your workplace, engage in agriculture for a year. You will return when you feel stronger again. Are you unable to lose weight? Stop dieting and exercising, direct your attention to something else, write a book, for example. Any attempts you make with that negative self-image will only pull you further down. You keep saying, EVERYTHING I PUT MY HANDS DRY.
Meanwhile, good things come one after the other (Dude, God said to the guy, go ahead, my servant, he just bought the second house. Sound familiar!) As long as you don't lose your love and respect for yourself.
Stay safe.
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