* “I was very skinny in my childhood. My mother was always screaming at me, saying, "Eat quickly, you'll eat it all, your life will come to your throat, don't hold back just because you're full." Today I am 38 years old and dealing with obesity. The moment I see food, it's like I'm not in my right mind, I'm trying to eat whatever is available, I can't say "stop" to myself." He pulled and got very angry. From that day on, whenever I speak in front of the public, I turn red as if my ear was pulled out and the words get stuck in my throat.”
* “I was 9 years old, we went to the village to visit and stayed with my uncles. I woke up with my cousin, who is 10 years older than me, caressing my legs. He continued to harass me, I didn't know what to do, I couldn't even raise my voice. Fortunately, he left after a while. Today I am married and a mother of 2 children. I never enjoyed sexuality, I always felt like I was being raped when I was with my wife. On the other hand, I was embarrassed towards my wife and angry at myself.”
* “My father was a very angry and critical person. He put a lot of pressure on me to perform religious duties during my adolescence. I would wait in the next room and lie to my father when he asked. Now, as an adult, I want to do my duties with my own will, but I cannot do anything without someone telling me. I am fighting with myself because of this situation.”
Based on examples, “I have suffered a lot from you! It would not be a wrong statement to say "my childhood memories". The question that needs to be answered: “how can I get rid of the influence of negative childhood memories?” is the question.
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